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I never know what my bf thinks. I talked to him last night about our future together and what my plans are and he didn't…

I never know what my bf thinks. I talked to him last night about our future together and what my plans are and he didn't say anything. Granted I cried because I ended up talking about Caroline and how glad I thankful I am for him giving me her. But like he never expresses his emotions or thoughts. It's one of those things I've talked to him about yet he doesn't do that. Am I being pushy? Or is there a nice and easy way to ask for a response?

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xmellybeanx

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we have been together for a year and 7 months. we had our Caroline November 21 and she passed the 23. i saw him cry once ever and that's when we found out the sex. my family said he was crying while I was knocked out from the emergency c section. but I haven't seen him cry once. he doesn't talk about her. the only time he does is when I bring her up. if I'm having one of my episodes he sits and hugs me and tells me to breath, etc. but he never has a moment where he cries or expresses himself. it makes me feel like he doesn't care, but Ik he has to.

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jsco

Jorja GreenВ ожидании первенца

Mines the same way. he's very reserved about his emotions (abused as a child) and it's taken me a loooong time to get "used" to it. it still drives me insane because I talk about our son and he just kinda goes "mhm yep" I've just learnt to deal with it, but he can tell now when it gets too much for me and then he'll say something sweet or talk about how excited he is to be a father.

idk how long you guys have been together but I think eventually he will start to share a little bit

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Would you consider this cheating? What would you do

Would you consider this cheating? What would you do I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and asked what pictures was it so hard for him to not look at and I guess he called her and they talked. And she supposedly came clean to me and said they would just talk and vent about what stresses them. Dh said the same thing and I guess the pictures were of them from a long time ago of them and other friends hanging out. Dh started crying saying he never meant anything that everything looked like the perfect crime but that there was nothing there. I have since kept my distance and told him to give me space. At the moment I don't want to see him. I believe what they said but I'm so hurt and I don't want to be the stupid person to believe everything.

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.