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Jennifer
Jennifer
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (21 нед.)

alright mommas. I'm needing some serious advice. I have a neighbor that has called the cops twice on me because my bf…

alright mommas. I'm needing some serious advice. I have a neighbor that has called the cops twice on me because my bf and I were arguing. just verbal. nothing major. typical couples argument. the building we live in was built in the 80s and it was a house that was turned into apartments so walls are very thin. the cops just came out did their job and left. no big deal. well the other night my son who is 5 was having tantrums. stomping slamming doors. throwing toys. and i was of course yelling at him. well later that night a cop and child services show up at my apartment. And so I had to give them a report. the lady checked my son and took pictures and said some one would contact me about if a case will be opened. now idk what my neighbor said. idk if she said hes being abused or just said something about my yelling. not sure. but my question to u ladies is should I confront her about it? of course I know to be mature and calm. but I'm debating if I should even discuss it with her.

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princesslina

Akeelah

I wouldn't because you don't know it's her for sure... And you don't know if she's crazy or not. 😕

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courtt

Courtney

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I would of confronted her a long time ago

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amandalt1234

Amanda Tatsey

Мама сына (1 год)

Call the land lord and complain ! That's ridiculous beyond

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jenny73

Jennifer

Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (21 нед.)

@amandalt1234 my landlord has been informed every time the cops come out. by who? idk. and she hasn't really said anything to me about it but I can tell shes getting annoyed. But it's not my fault! My neighbor has an issue with everything that goes on in my house

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bitch.tits

Nickel

Мама сына (1 год)

My neighbors do this too, literally over EVERYTHING! We have been here a year and the cops have been called on us four times. But we have more than one neighbor so idk who it is. But it's sucks so bad and it's ALWAYS the same two cops. Now they come in have a talk with my husband, play with my dog and leave.

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jenny73

Jennifer

Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (21 нед.)

@princesslina yeah that's why im.scared too. that she may try and say I did something that I didn't do. but at the same time I wasn't gonna go to her n just start yelling. I was gonna try to get her to admit it first. alot of signs point to her.

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jenny73

Jennifer

Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (21 нед.)

@courtt what would u say

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amandalt1234

Amanda Tatsey

Мама сына (1 год)

I'd tell her she needs to do something about this because she knew renting to you that you have a five year old and every mother knows how five year olds can be that you can't keep having someone call the cops because they are upset because of the how loud you are being.

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amandalt1234

Amanda Tatsey

Мама сына (1 год)

Also put there that you are a family it wasn't just you moving there and couples have there arguments kids throw fits that doesn't mean the cops should show up every time we are little loud and if the cops felt there was something wrong they would have made arrests

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courtt

Courtney

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I would go off. It's different when she calls on you and bf but when she bring child services in the mix over your child that's when I'd lose it

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jenny73

Jennifer

Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (21 нед.)

@amandalt1234 that's very true. maybe I will say that to the landlord

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jenny73

Jennifer

Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (21 нед.)

@mommyof1boyy omg yeah when the cops came out for me they were so nice and chill.

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jenny73

Jennifer

Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (21 нед.)

@courtt yeah that's exactly what I said ! If u wanna call about a noise complaint That's fine but trying to get my child taken away or have me under inspection that's something else

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jenny73

Jennifer

Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (21 нед.)

the lady that I think is doing it is in her 40s. She single and a pastor. I don't think she's doing it to be nasty but I def think she might think I'm an unfit mom cuz I'm young and my bf is Spanish. maybe I should tell her I could press charge on her for false accusations

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rmreed

Rachel

I wouldn't say anything to her cause in the end that could be worse, it'll look bad on you. Just ignore her and let things workout, try not to yell at your kid so much..maybe other methods work better for him and definitely do not yell with your boyfriend when your son is around. They pick up on that stuff and it'll mess him up in the long run. That lady isn't worth it though, do your thing..be the best you can be for your son and everything will be fine! Child services can't do anything without a full blown case and if you're a good mom it'll be fine, which I'm sure you are from what you've said on here!

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hernandez

jessica

girl let me tell u what happend to me ...ok this girl was living with us she was my ex brother i law girl ...well she ended up xalling cps on me after moving not even 2 weeks ..she had 32 complaints i knw it was her bc she said my sin burned her toothbrush with a candle that was on in the bAthroom ..so what i did was confronted her AND I WHOOPED HER FUCKEN ASSS GIRLLLLLLL WHOOO (DNT DO THAT ) all im sayen is yes go tell her wtf is she thinken mind her business

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jenny73

Jennifer

Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (21 нед.)

@hernandez omg I hate ppl lol. trust me I'd love to whoop her ass

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hernandez

jessica

girl ive never had cps called on me and it was weird 2 weeks getti g to Indiana and cps already on my ass so yea i had to whoop her ass my ex bf was like babe babe im like get the F...OF ME but after cps came 3 times they seen that there was no case tha ks god

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jenny73

Jennifer

Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (21 нед.)

@hernandez @courtt @mommyof1boyy @amandalt1234

well I talked to her last night. And recorded it. I'm thinking of calling and seeing if I can report her for false accusations. But not sure who to call

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courtt

Courtney

В ожидании первенца

You need to. The police dept that cane to your house and child services that came

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