is it bad that a miltary guy i started talk to want me to move to ohio with him in jan and he want to help me with my kids and take care of us idk what to say i wont be 18 until jan 9
Nope. Don't need to depend on a man ever. & I wouldn't jump into anything. Sounds like you barley met him.
And then I'd still take it slow and make sure it's what is best for your kids and yourself
I wouldn't move unless he comes to see you first and somewhere safe you never know who might be catfishing you just my advice.
my advice is to never depend on a man to take care of you or your kids. I wouldn't move to another state for a man either. It's something to really think about.
Military life is super hard and stressful. Think before you jump in just for the security.