So my bf went back to our apartment to grab stuff since we are staying with my parents until we can heal and figure out what we want to do. When he got back, I could tell he was upset and I of course asked him if he was okay. He said I'm the best I can be and then said he went into her room. I literally cried and I just don't know how to comfort him. He isn't one to show emotions but I can figure them out. But I know he's too bust worrying about me. I just want him to be able to grieve as well. This process is just unbearable. I've never seen my parents cry as much as they have. I've never seen my bf so lost and sadden. I just don't know how to help anyone.