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Lucy
Lucy
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So I have my an appointment with my new ob/gyn for my pelvic check and birth control. I didn't get on right after I had…

So I have my an appointment with my new ob/gyn for my pelvic check and birth control. I didn't get on right after I had my son and I was getting on it because of my son's dad but things didn't work out so should I even? My mom keeps telling me not because she thinks I'll become infertile or cause some health issues to me or a future baby. I also don't want to risk it because I don't want to go through what I am now in the future again. So what do y'all think & if so recommend? 🤔

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mommytojamesplus1

Heather

Yeah I wouldn't. and if you become intimate just use condoms until ur on a bc

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meli2890

Melissa💚

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Everyone is different my mom was on the pill for 4 years then decided to have a baby without being on bc it took her another 4 years to have a baby me and my sister are 8 years apart 😳.. I had the iud took me1 year to have a baby ..it's up to you if your not gonna be having sex then don't get it but if you are then yes definitely be on some type of bc

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mommytojamesplus1

Heather

just tell your ob your not sexually active at this time and will look at your options once you are to become active again

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luuuuuucyyy

Lucy

Мама сына-младенца

You're probably right. I also leaning towards it because let's just my periods make me sick now @wethreepeas

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luuuuuucyyy

Lucy

Мама сына-младенца

Wow, that's crazy. That would be perfect for me because I'm going back to school & want to finish before my son starts. I was leaning towards the IUD due to my periods being so bad.

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luuuuuucyyy

Lucy

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@meli2890,

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mommytojamesplus1

Heather

@luuuuuucyyy, ohhh to go on it to avoid periods hmm idk what the best option would be, but who knows the long term effects it will have. I know my body has a hard time jumping back after being off any form, and some do just fine.

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luuuuuucyyy

Lucy

Мама сына-младенца

Yes. It's been so bad, like I get really sick. But if it has long term effects I would rather suffer a few days. I've never been on any birth control @wethreepeas

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mommytojamesplus1

Heather

Yeah I have a family friend who it took like almost 10 years to concieve again. was so sad to see her go through that struggle. it took us a while too, this was just from the pill also caused me to gain to much weight and hard to put it off my sister went on the shot and patch different times, that had some long term effects too

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mommytojamesplus1

Heather

@luuuuuucyyy,

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luuuuuucyyy

Lucy

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Wow. I know my mom was on the pill for a while and conceived twice after she was on it and had miscarriages and then got pregnant a few years later again. @wethreepeas

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nikilauren

Niki

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Everyone's different, I was on the pill for 6 years and then I started missing pills one month and the next month I found out I was pregnant lol

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luuuuuucyyy

Lucy

Мама сына-младенца

Crazy lol Are you on anything now? @nikilauren

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nikilauren

Niki

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No because I have it in my head that it'll mess with my milk supply lol but I plan to get back on the pill around the time my son turns 1.

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nurseriri

Ria

Мама сына-младенца

@luuuuuucyyy, my opinion is, if you're not active at the moment why go on BC?@wethreepeas have a great suggestion.

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luuuuuucyyy

Lucy

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You're right @nurseriri

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