Without my husband my son and I wouldn't have anything. He provides everything for us, since I don't work. and I really…
Without my husband my son and I wouldn't have anything. He provides everything for us, since I don't work. and I really appreciate it and I know how blessed I am to have a hard working man and to be able to stay home with my son. But sometimes I feel like (not on purpose) I don't respect him as much as I should. Example: after a hard night with the baby and my husband is sound asleep, I'm really tired and kind of snappy. Like I'll get annoyed over something soo small that doesn't matter and take it out on him by the way I talk irritated sounding..(not cussing at him or calling him names or anything) but he can tell I'm annoyed. But nothing was his fault AT ALL. And I'm just tired but it's not fair to him because he is so tired too! He works all day then comes home and helps me with Isaiah(our son, 2 months old) and then I take the baby for the night so he can rest for work. So it's totally fair that he doesn't wake up with Isaiah throughout the night and I don't mind doing at all either. It's just in the early morning when I'm exhausted... I want ideas on how to stop this! I hate causing a problem between us because usually we don't really fight, sometimes we have disagreements but we talk them out most of the time. we have a wonderful marriage and this petty bickering I cause is so ridiculous! Sorry for the long post, but if you actually read all this thank you I would love some comments!
Deanna·
Мама дочки-младенца
Your welcome. Glad I could help. @giananiicole
Giana Nicole·
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Omg I'm gonna steal that idea! That's perfect. @babynessa thanks so muchv
Deanna·
Мама дочки-младенца
No its not just you. Being a stay at home mom is exhausting and we need breaks just like our men need breaks. Just have to find a way that both of you guys get a break so you both stay happy and it also prevents the little arguments. Me and my husband also do rock, paper, scissors and coin tosses on his days off. It determines who's doing the dishes that night or who's changing our daughter's diaper or who's taking her a bath even who's putting her to bed. It just makes it fun for us and it's fair so it's not just me doing everything he gets to helps as well. 😄 @giananiicole
Giana Nicole·
Мама сына-младенца
@babynessa,
Giana Nicole·
Мама сына-младенца
Thanks that's a great idea! Yea I felt like it was just me so I'm really glad you can relate! I'm gonna talk to him about and see what he says 😊
Deanna·
Мама дочки-младенца
I understand what your going through. My husband is the one who provides for our household so I can be a stay at home mom as well. I get tired just the same as you and take it out on my husband. It's not fair for him when he gets home at 3 or 4am after a long shift. My husband gives me a break in the morning on his days off, Friday and Saturday. On those days he gets up with our daughter and does her morning routine while I sleep in. It lets me recharge. In return I let my husband play his xbox all night long once our daughter is in bed. Maybe you guys could do something similar. My husband also takes our daughter to the store with him if I don't want to go and just want a little me time. It gives you a little break and in return let him do something or have something he wants.