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One of my friends on FB posted a meme saying that women who get child support should have to show receipts showing they…

One of my friends on FB posted a meme saying that women who get child support should have to show receipts showing they actually use that money toward the child. Granted yes a lot of moms use that money for themselves and that's not right especially if your child needs things then you go and nickel and dime the dad for everything. But their are some of us good moms who do and will use that money toward things for the child. Then someone was saying if the dad just gets things for the baby then they shouldn't have to pay child support on top of it. Well in my case my sons father doesn't get him everything I ask him too. Usually he gets him diapers that's it. So that's where child support comes in handy so I can just have the money and buy him what he needs. And not have to rely on his dad to do it when he doesn't anyway.

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bonniesue

Bonnie

Мама сына (1 год)

My fiancé's sister in law completely uses the child support on herself. Her daughter has nothing and goes no where meanwhile she has new coach bags 😒. But my mom had my dad on child support never used a dime for herself. I am pro-child support, anti-shitty moms. Lol jk.

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jaimelee

Jaime

Мама четверых детей

That's the problem with the world today a couple of A Hole moms ruin it for all the good moms out there

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missjess

Jess

See that's where it's not fair! My ex has two other children who he pays child support for and their mom definitely uses that money on her self because she's always asking him for money for whatever. She gets atleast 25% of his pay she gets plenty of money where she shouldn't have to ask him for anything but she does. @bonniesue but soon he'll be giving me child support too so he's really going to have to tighten the purse strings 😌@bonniesue

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missjess

Jess

I agree @jaimelee

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Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!

Mommas who are separated from their childrens dad. If my sons father is to get our son every other Friday-Sunday, but…

Mommas who are separated from their childrens dad. If my sons father is to get our son every other Friday-Sunday, but then tells me halfway through the week he can't take him Friday until Saturday due to taking up an optional shift at work, can I legally tell him he either takes him Friday at his ordered time or doesn't get him? He's constantly cancelling whole weekends or taking our son a quarter of his ordered time. He also isn't following the meets on the order. Almost every Sunday he has him I get a message that he doesn't have a car so I have to get my son, or he tells me i have to run him out there. I'm already having cut hours at work and getting no child support from him since he's been continuously in and out of work.