ADVICE PLEASE
I'm 26 weeks and 2 days pregnant also have a 2 year old and feel like nothing I do is right . All I do is go to work and come home nothing else . I dont have any friends and have no car at moment . My SO on other hand works all day comes home for about 30 min than leaves with his friend for hours lately I've had enough and told him I feel like we aren't spending time together and I feel like I'm drowning here alone by myself with my 2 year old all day o understand my son isn't his but he does look up to him as a dad . All he says is he had a long day and I need to let him go out if he wants to because he feels his freedom is ending anyways when we have the baby . I don't think he's cheating on me but how can I explain to him in a better way that I'm depressed and desperately need him here more than just to sleep and eat together ? Am I being selfish idk what to do anymore this is killing me emotionally ...
Лучший комментарий
Комментарии
I would let him know how you feel and suggest couple's counseling if things don't improve... Tell him he's a dad now and that comes with responsibility. Maybe he doesn't want the responsibility and those are issues you guys need to work out sooner rather than later.
I agree to a certain extent he should be able to go out every so often because it's healthy for you guys to still have your own identities but it is NOT okay for him to go out everyday. He should keep it down to maybe only 3 times a week until the baby gets here then less than that. And the fact that he's not the father of your other child shouldn't matter he decided to be with u and live with u so he should look at your other child as his too