How do you ladies deal with your SO's family you don't get along with.. with a baby? Because idk if I want my SIL around me or the baby when she's born, for many reasons.
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!!!!! Right with you !!!! My mil is... Difficult isn't strong enough. She stole my sil's first baby photo shoot proof photos, framed them and then FaceTimes her daughter to be like look what I have first. Like ?!? Mommy should get those first, not grandma. I made a physical list of my lines, and told me sig fig if they're crossed I'll snap, so he can correct her, or I will.
My boyfriends mom cheated on his dad with another man when he worked constantly who support the 4 kids and she got to stay home he handed her all his money and instead of paying bills she put it all back to get out. And my boyfriend was I think he said 16 so he spiraled out of control getting in trouble with law and bad friends and drugs. But ever since she left she hasn't wanted anything to do with him and it really affects him everyday and now that we are having a baby he thought she would come around but she expects to watch the baby and I've met her twice in 2 years. It's really hard sometimes cause he's emotionally damaged and scarred from her not wanting him that it makes me have resentment. But he has grown so close to my mom it's becoming better.
It sucks because I left my mom's because of similar situations. We thought it would be different here but I guess not, hopefully we don't have to live here long. I think I could stand her a bit more if we didn't live in the same house
like @corinasolorio, said you just have to ... i had to stay quiet at times when my bf mom trys to be petty or throw shade at me or when she just talk shit cuase if i say sum ik its goung to be worst i rsther ignore them i dont get along with sum of hes family members but its ok ijust dont tak to them nor mess with them ... i just say hi be nice to everyone even tho they talk mad shit bout me but idgaf ama have to deal with them the rest of ma life cus thts my son fam
That's hard . My sister doesn't get along with my bf . Sometimes she hates him and it's hard cause I can't force her to get along with him .
We just deal.. It's family going to be in our life regardless.. Children shouldn't have to suffer because we have problems with a certain family member.. I hated my SILs but didn't deny my son time with them because the loves his family.. It's hard but unless they are hurting my child i won't deny them time with him
I read the other comments. Just to confirm. She is emotionally manipulative. She pulls the 'you don't love me, I'm a terrible mom' sympathy when you're mad, and completely snubbed me our SECOND Christmas together. She knows I buy all the gifts, and got them custom hand crafts stuff the first year, but not even a card the 2nd year and no thank you for any of the gifts; directly thanking my bf passed me