When my son was one m old ny husband got pissed bc I got bk on I didn't care tho I didn't want kids bk to bk not my style. He still bothered tho bc he wanted another right other n now my son gonna three y old super soon n I'm still not ready I'm waiting till he's 3.5 y old to hv one more then tying my tubes .. it's ur body ur life u should b the one to determine what u want n what's best for u