Feeling very down about my baby weight I was a size 14 pre pregnancy I'm in a 16-18 even though I had our little boy 2 weeks ago. I just put a photo for little man on fb and some girl liked it who's friends with the husband but use to go to school with. She's very pretty and got big boobs. He was saying she used to be really big but now lost a lot of weight she's got a great pair of tits. Don't know why but it just makes me feel really down. I trust him 100% but lately I've been having horrible dreams that he's messaging other girls. Been through a tough time with our son had a drama of having Hun and he's still in special care. I walk out of there just feel like giving up on everything 😞 please help ladies 😞
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Maybe try telling him how low his behaviour makes you feel? Hope you sort it x
id be fuming at him @cs90 really would. go on fb and say 'god hes fit' bout a lad and it will be diff story then. x
Thankyou for the comment ladies. I've sat in tears tonight as he hardly spoke to me. He's been on his phone constantly tonight. I just want my baby feel like I'm not bonding with him @chellie32 @jod1303 @katrainbird @littleelf85 @tg123456789 @ttcrainbowbaby
Your OH comment is out of order. Even more so if he's aware that you're feeling down.
You just had your baby hun. you'll soon settle and can and will start to lose weight when you're ready. These things aren't instantaneous.
If he doesn't already know, tell him how his comments made you feel. Hopefully that stops those kind of comments. Men can be idiots. Try not to dwell on what he said.
it's your choice but the man sounds like a prick to me *No offence* you've just had a baby HIS baby an he's going on about someone else's tits? if that was my bf all hell would be let loose no way! xx
you had baby just 2 weeks ago. uve plenty of time to get bk down to pre preg weight. mention to him how its made u feel though and im sure he will reasure u x
Hey. You are bound to be feeling vulnerable and not at your best when you have just had a baby and are suffering from lack of sleep.
It is normal to feel emotional too.
So things that wouldn't normally bother you will make you feel sensitive.
Hope you are feeling better about yourself soon and that your son is also recovering x
dont give yourself a hard time. youll lose your weight in no time. as for your husband, slap him. commenting about her tits aint on. youll be happy in yourself soon 😊
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I am into my 15 week now
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Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
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Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
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@cs90, I totally understand. My OH makes comments about attractive women, and all the women he'd do all the time and then will tell me the baby is making me look fat. it's annoying as hell and sometimes I really want to punch him, unfortunately that's frowned upon. ;) Unfortunately men are insensitive sometimes and don't actually realise 1) how much words hurt, 2) hormones! hormones make them hurt even more and 3) it's not our fault we're growing their damn children inside us! 😂 I'd happily have it the other way around! you have ages now though, to lose the baby weight and get to your fabulous prepregnancy body to show your fella exactly what he should be looking at! ;) xx