Pet Peeve: Women who say their are the mother and the father!😑🤔
Especially the ones who start claiming both titles the same day they break up with their man.😂 Like give the guy a chance to prove you deserve that title which whether he is in their life or not a woman does not deserve to be called a mom and a dad.
There are things you can't give your child that the father can and vice Versa and that's ok doesn't make you less or the child less.
It's a disservice to condition your children to believe that their mother is providing the nurturing of a mom and a dad because then that will lead to daughters who don't think a dad is really necessary when they have kids. That makes a boy feel like he will never be enough if mom was mom and dad then how could he be man enough.
Moms who say it think about it you got it from somewhere, you were influenced by someone to believe you could be both and you were probably either a child when exposed to moms who were also "dads" or somebody influenced you to believe this as an adult so if you can be influenced what do you think is gonna happen to your kids.
I only know of two ppl who can legally or physically say they are mom and dad; Caitlyn Jenner and my god brothers dad/mom who is transgender. 😂😂😂
You're still a great mom without a dad in the picture, you also make any potential man feel a little intimidated by saying such because he will be wondering where will he fit in aside from in your bed if you are your kids mom and dad? You may not think so but you're putting bad energy in the universe for you and your kids claiming roles that are not yours.