Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece that is 25 that lives with him and she has a daughter that's almost 6 but on day she was being stupid and told me that I might have her daughters dad closer then me then i though since then we have had lots of fights about it and he always says it's not his daughter but why would she say that and why would he have gotten so mad when i questioned him about it and every time he post pictures and stuff about her he puts my daughter i am honestly double thinking this if I should move or not im 22 and 6 months pregnant!?????
I need some help/knowledge on child support and taxes?! Her father pays child support monthly.. My daughter lives with me, I haven't filed my taxes yet. I'm planning on doing it this weekend. My ex just texted me and said - "Hey my dad is doing my taxes for me and he needs ur social security number n your full name, cause I need to claim back some of the taxes from the child support. And he said u can still claim Mia it won't affect it he already asked the tax people. So if u can send it over that be great thanks." However, when I googled it...I found out child support is outside of taxes. I FEEL like he's lying to me to try to get my social so he can claim our daughter. Anyone know?!
Dad's FB Video!! Did anyone see that video a dad posted on his daughters FB page? He saw a post she made where she bashed her parents and cursed them, called them lazy and told them they should pay her for stuff she did around the house... So he called her out on it and put the video on her page!! Sorry if I missed a post already about this already, but I just saw the video and IT WAS AWESOME!!! Hahahhaa!
So my ex went to court and filed for visitation rights. I was served last week. I am not comfortable with our daughter being around him alone nor his mother which he lives with. I have proof of him asking me to take his drug test for his job for him in text messages and him texting me he was too high to drive and get our daughter milk. Is that enough to show the judge? As far as his mother she watches his son quite often and told us she gives him nighttime medicine if she has problems getting him to go to sleep at night. (Claims she did it with my ex when he was little too) And she FaceTimed us once mid day while taking his son back to his mother, she gave him night time medicine bc she didn’t want him talking the whole ride and wanted him to sleep. He was so out of it. It just scares me to leave her alone with them.
China·
That's horrible.
Katie·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I agree @vamommy89 he is an awful person. It just breaks my heart to hear her say I don't have a dad and know that's the one thing I can't fix at this point. I hate to see her hurting.!
Amber Jacq ·
he's a dead beat she dont need him in her life trust me she's better off without him because mt real dad was hardly in my life and the only time he would talk to his 3 kids is when he'd get a new girlfriend or wife (hes been married 3 times) the only reason he'd talk to us is so he could act like he was father of the year when in reality we knew as soon as he "impressed" the girl he was with he'd quit talking to us and break up with that girl he's been married for two years now and treats his new wife's kids and grandkids like they are his and they ain't and he just breaks mine and mt big Sis and big bros hearts everyday that he ignores us so your daughter is better off not even having him in her life so that he can't say mean horrible things to her and break her heart like my dad does so if I was you I wouldn't tell her about him when she's older and if she asks about him just say that he left and he's a rotten person cause that's true he did leave and he is a horrible rotten waste of a person for leaving his daughter behind like nothing happened
Katie·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@amberjacq, I'm sorry your dad has been like that and I agree with what your saying!
Dominique·
Мама дочки (9 лет)
I know what your going through. My daughter father truned his back on us before she was even born, and she just resently truned 9 years old. But this is what you need to understand, his lack of presents does not dictate your childs faith, however his lack of presents does dictate his faith. He will never be able to have a functional relationship with anyone, since he lacks the ability to have a functional relationship with his child. Trust me, he's not a good father to his son, and i bet his relationship sucks with his parents, especially his mom. His relationship with his wife will not last, and the fact that shes with him, knowing that he has another child that he does take care of, should tell you what type of woman she is. I'm sure she walks around with her nose in the air, however will be in the same boat as you, sooner or later. I know you habe heard it a million times before; however, you have to keep your head up. Search for and obatin every resourse that you can, in order to ease your load. Find someone that you can talk to about your feelings, work toward getting yourself in a better financial postition, better job, retrun to school etc...
It hurts, because like many other single mothers. When you thought about becoming a parent. You did not think of doing it alone. But here you are, and this shit is hard. Nevertheless, the days go by and things get better. What's going to happen to him, is going to happen and your not going to have to do anything. I know you have heard this before, but, you have to move on. You can't make him be a father, and your state does not care about him not being a father either. He does not deserve the stage time your mind and heart is giving him.
Katie·
Мама двоих (младенец)
thank you @imcinnamonsmom2007