my SO and I do our money separate and this year money is super tight! My SD is the same age as my daughter, we only have her every other weekend and he pays child support, he is trying to make me feel bad for buying for my daughter and feels i should get his the exact same. I feel like she gets two Christmases, only spends four days a month here, im not excluding her and i have done for her what I can. My daughter only has me, her dad doesnt see her or pay for anything. Any thoughts?