URGENT!!!
Is there any possible way for a father to drop parental responsibility/get their name removed from the birth certificate if they want to do so. He's childishly walked out of her life when I've said he can't have her for the night anymore (still have her from 12-7 one day a week at 6 months old) because she's not happy. I don't want to be tied to this asshole for the rest of my life, help me out ladies!!
Screenshots of how he responded in the comments, it's really immature and disgusting. Sorry for the swearing but I'm sure it's understandable😬
Hun because he was involved at the start and her dad..he will always in some shape or form be in your life...My partner is in our lives...but not on the BC (because he didn't come to the appointment with me) If we split...he would still be in our lives...I believe even if a father isnt on the BC they still have rights because the child is still their flesh and blood...but legally speaking..he has no rights xx
And from the texts its clear he still wants to see his daughter...but he needs to be responsible about it...i would do the same thing as you...id never let Maya stay with anyone else unless she had a safe place to sleep. Maya is nearly 7 months and is crawling and standing up! a moses basket would not be safe for her in the slightest xxx
@mamapop I'm not sure how it works hun, maybe ring the registry office and ask them hun? xx
its allowed but he has to give up his right and looking at ur texts i dont think he will just hand his rights over. @mamapop,
if goes to court as @winterbaby95 says they wont favour one parent. if u mention threats ect he will get supervised visits maybe 4 hrs a week. thats what haplened with my mate xx
+he has said he wants to do it I just know he never gets anything done so I'll have to make sure he does
If it goes to court hun...they'll give you 50/50 custody..they dont give one parent full custody unless one parent is unfit to parent xxx
@winterbaby95, @tg123456789 thank you! I'm so glad that that's allowed. Do you think there would be any possible way of arranging it without me having to see him or speak to him. He has been threatening and verbally abusive toward me in the past and has been known to be violent towards others especially when drinking which is most of the time x
He has had a part time job for 5 years, got 2 kids now and doesn't pay his parents a thing for living there gets his food free etc. Spends most nights in the pub and is a functioning alcoholic. He has not once tried to get a better job or a place of his own. He was a one night stand that turned into a short relationship and our daughter is beautiful I just wish her dad was someone that cared
they have to sign rights over. if they registered baby with you and they was present at birth and on birth cert they will always be tied....
luckily my sons father gave up his rights and signed full custody to me. hes bever been involved in his life though.
at 6 months she can sleep in a travel cot for 1 night a week and can get the cheapest from argos for 30 quid.
once rights are signed over they dont have to pay csa either but id rather have no money that a knob in my childrens lives xx
The only time I would ever stop contact all together with him...is if he was abusive and a danger to me and his daughter. At the courts you can bring up the abusive thing...it will go in your favor xx