so this morning I was a little pissed. my boyfriends Mom came to get my baby and the first thing she said was "your momma ain't washed your face"........ she always says slick stuff like I don't take good care of my baby or like I'm always slacking when it comes to him. it's always nice to hear "good job" instead of criticising everything that I do when it comes to my baby 😠 I'm going to tell my boyfriend too, just to let him know.
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My baby isn't here yet but I'm sure it will be the same with my in laws. I spent all day cleaning the other week. I worked my ASS off. & they came over & my father in law looks at my husband & says "Looks amazing in here but y'all need to vacuum the floor." The ONLY thing I didn't get to. I bit my tongue so hard because all I could think was "f*** you."
@jclark18, you're doing wonderful! You know your baby best! You know what cries mean what and you do what you gotta do. Every mom has one of those off days and still take care of their baby. Don't be hard on yourself, ignore the negativity.
@me447, @skyy12221 you know what??? I appreciate the help but it gets hella IRRITATING!!!!!! I do the best I can and it seems like it's not enough.
Mine likes to tell me when my son needs a diaper change like I don't know or ignore the fact he needs one. I always tell her "I know" yet she still does it but loves the fact he's never had a diaper rash. Obviously I change him when he needs it.
my mil came over once.. I just finished feeding my baby and giving her a shower and put her to bed. when she woke up my mil went to go pick her up.. she had spit up while she was asleep & I never heard the end of it with my mil. 'you let her sleep dirty' ' you dk how to burp her' ' give her a shower ' I was about to punch her I swear !
@jclark18 my mama and papa came over yesterday to see me in the hospital since I just had my son Friday and was telling me to feed him but wouldn't hand him over and they took forever to leave the room ...