I never understood postpartum depression before I had the baby. I always thought...you just had a baby why so sad?? But now?? This shit is real.
I had my baby girl on Monday the 15th, took her home Tuesday night. My mom left Wednesday (she lives out of state) and won't be back until maybe Christmas. She was here for a few weeks and my baby was overdue, so she was only here for the first 2 days of her being born.
Anyway. I'm so stressed about breastfeeding. I have this feeling she's not eating enough from me. Only one bowel movement a day. She doesn't spit up. She's constantly hungry and I feel I'm not feeding her but I want to breastfeed her so bad.
All I've been doing today is cry. Breastfeed, cry, pump, cry. I feel so lonely and I don't know why. Seriously hope this feeling ends soon.
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I was feeling the same exact way! My little man was born 3 weeks early and I was stressing about him gaining weight. I was trying so hard to breastfeed but it wasn't working and it stresses me out lots. I've decided to exclusively pump because now I know how much he is getting. I still wish I could just breastfeed because I miss that bonding time with him but I do lots of skin to skin to make up for it. Every night the first week of his life I would just cry while holding him because I wanted to be the best momma for him. I think it's a normal feeling though! He's 2 in a half weeks old now and I'm finally getting the hang of everything.
ebf babies will feed often, breast milk is easily digested
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