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Need advise ladies ! So I live with my mom right now until my boyfriend and I can save up enough money for our own…

Need advise ladies !

So I live with my mom right now until my boyfriend and I can save up enough money for our own place. My mom isn't working right now and she is literally obsessed with my sister and I. I love her to death but sometimes it's way to much. I'm 20 years old, a mom, and I'm with the father of my son. I will stay at his house like 3 days a week since I'm on maternity leave right now. Every Time I leave she WILL NOT leave me alone. I'm trying to have alone time with my boyfriend and his family with our son. She will blow up my phone asking when I'm coming home, ask for pictures of him, say how much she misses him.. ITS BEEN TWO DAYS! Once I go back to work, I'll only see him on the weekends since he lives 20 mins away. My mother will take literally 100s of pictures/videos on her phone of my son and post them on social media... Even one of him naked in the bath!!! I post maybe 3 pictures a week of him and it's my kid! Whenever I come home she will take him from me and post online that's he's home, and how much she missed him blah blah blah. Even when I gave birth she PROMISED me several times that she would let me post first... But she did anyways. She even posted pics of me with my nipple showing snd part of my vagina when he was coming out 😡😡 She is literally stressing me out to the point that I'm in tears and not eating when I'm at home. When I'm with Chais (the father) I'm so calmed down and not stressed out... How can I tell her to lay low and not post every single second. I get she's happy but this is my family... I'm not happy about all the postings and neither is daddy. UGH HELP.

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jc2015

jazzmareeВ ожидании первенца

Have a sit down with her.

Let her know about the things that are bothering you. Express how you feel. she's just overly excited. There isn't a need to cut her off for that reason

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gabbymommy

Aashley AttmoreМама дочки (9 лет), беременна (34 нед.)

Yeah and u can simply explain that to her.

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remingtonsmommy_16

AshleyМама сына-младенца

@babyattmore, yea I won't cut her off. She just needs to know I have a family of my own now

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gabbymommy

Aashley AttmoreМама дочки (9 лет), беременна (34 нед.)

I would NOT say to cut your mother off , it's not that type of situation. Honestly, your mom is excited that's all. She's very happy to spend time with her grandchild. Now the posting pics part she's just excited for everyone to see her grandchild she's happy once again but since u have a problem with it you should sit her down and let her know she can't post certain pictures and explain to her how you feel.

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lovebeingmommy

AllyМама сына (1 год), беременна (1 нед.)

I would sit her down when she is in a good mood. tell her how you feel and give her options. tell her she can take as many pics as she wants. but if she is going to post, limit it to 1 a day and she needs your approval. If she can't handle that then cut the time with her having ur son. You are mommy not her

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?