Asked my doctor about having my Baby normal since I had my 1st csection about 7 yrs ago..
She provided me with the info & risk.
For a C-section there is a chance my scar can open up during labor yet it's only been a few cases it happens but for this I will have to sign a consent bcux me or the baby can be at risk if it was to happen. She said if I do a csection then I will be scheduled for one at 39 weeks. I'm currently 35.
She said to think about it and just let her know
my decision on next week's appointment🤔
Idk what to decide I really don't want another csection but if it's for the best then I guess I will
have to do it😔
@veenuusx33, I really want to experience vaginal birth & having SPD with her being low & my linning being thin on my ultrasound I feel like I'm up for it but they did tell me the risks which scared me. My csection wasn't a good experience since I got really sick & I met my 1st born a week after birth due to my sickness. I think the experience got me all traumatized
I had my 1st child c section because she was breech. I got pregnant with my 2nd when she was 3 and had my 2nd daughter when she was 4. I had a vbac and it was successful. I was in active labor for 10 hours before I had her. I say if u wanna try for a vaginal birth do it. I had to deliver in a high risk hospital just in case anything went wrong.
something else to keep in mind is after 2 cesarean births, if you are to have a third baby and you really want to birth naturally it will be nearly impossible to find anyone to help you with a vbac
thnx girls for the advice@jazzyjazz @octobermom14 @meli2890
my cousin wife she had a c section with her 1st and her 2nd vbac. the kids are ten years apart
A lot of doctors push it too a c section because that's more money for them...my mom had my brother through c section and had me vaginal and we are 2 years apart,everything went well..just go with your gut feeling if u feel safe go for it but if ur worried then do c section
I ended doing a C-section again.. also they were gonna have me sign a consent if I wanted to deliver normal but then hearing the risk... I heard there's 1% chance of the risk happing which is very low... but I was 1 out of 100 women who's placenta rupture so I didn't wanna risk it. I might be that 1%
What the hell has happened on here? What with all the drama, all I have managed to find is that someone has said somebody is lying about being pregnant wtf ...... What the hell is going on 😐
Advice please ?
Long story... I'm getting married in April we decided no kids other than our own two and my niece And nephew as would end up more kids that adults and it would Cost so much more plus wanted parents to have a day/night to enjoy themselves. Anyway my "maid of honor" ( hasn't done much to help but cause me stress) has 5 kids her youngest will be around 5 months old she's breastfeeding him and keeps telling me she is gonna try and express ect... but I know she has no intentions of d...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Rant-_-...
My friend asked me to watch her dd while she took someone to do something at about 7ish & said "it won't take long"..
Sooooo Athena has to have the surgery 😥😥😥😥 I've been bawling I'm a mess ! I can't believe this is happening to my poor child ! Why ? What did I do that caused this ? I'm seriously on my knees bawling ! As much as I tried to prepare myself, I wasn't ready to hear those words . In 3 months she will have her cranial surgery & I pray to God she has a easy & speedy recovery ! Please pray for my baby ladies ! She really needs them !
Yeah that's understandable. I had a panic attack during my csection and I am terrified to have another one so I went with a VBAC and I'm doing the same with this one. All that matters is urs and the baby's health so if the doctor is willing and you are I say try. but its all up to u