Can I just be honest? Google doesn't have all the answers and it will scare you to death. Do what's best for your child and don't let the Internet worry you. I'm not saying don't keep yourself educated which you should always do. But pray and trust God. Google will tell you your child is about to die when all they end up having is gas. I'm sorry but the devil is a lie if he thinks he is about to torment my mind.