My labor story :
Yesterday July 29, 2016 I had a routine doctors appointment. Just to get the heart rate taken , seeing if I was dilated as well as all of my other vitals . I go in the exam room everything looks great & I am not dilated any still . my OB goes to listen at his heart beat & couldn't find it . About 10 mins later when she did find it , she says the heart rate was lower than usual . She asks me when the last time I ate was , I say about 9am & my appointment was at 1:30pm . In between that I did not eat or drink because I took a nap before going in . Plus , I wasn't hungry . So she offers me juice & crackers to wake him up before sending me off to the NST area for a few minutes . I'm in the NST area after drinking the orange juice they gave me & apparently it showed I was having contractions & he wasn't moving . Heart rate looked fine tho . So the nurse comes in & ask am I having contractions & I go yes . Not too intense tho . They keep giving me cups after cups to drink to wake him up & nothing . The nurse says well by the looks of the test you're having contractions & they look close together , so I could be in labor but there is still no movement going on with baby . So she says she gonna let my OB know & take it from there . My OB comes in & says that everything looks good but it could be better . She sends me off to get some food & drink & tells me to head off to L&D for another stress test & ultra sound. I go do that . I get to the hospital , I am now again ordered 3 more cups of liquid to help with dehydration & waking up baby . Still nothing .. My cervix still closed shut ! I get the ultra sound a∧ he just wasn't responding to that at all either . After about two hours waiting for those results to come back, my nurse comes in & says , you're contracting & the heart beat still isn't where we need it to be . So I think it's just better if we go ahead & induce you . Baby is only going to survive better outside of the womb . Scared out of my mind , I'm like okayy do what you need to do doc. To prep for all of that , since I'm dehydrated the nurses can't find my veins to draw blood work . I'm stuck like 80 times until they find a vein . It was awful . I move over to the delivery room at around 11:30 pm maybe , those contractions I had were actually starting to get a really intense. I could feel like in my uterus , legs , back , everywhere . This is WITHOUT induction medication mind you ... So right before they come in to perform the induction , she checks my cervix again & says , it looks like you're 3cm dilated ... All this time , I've been in active labor & didn't even know it smh ... So because with every painful contractions, I was in pain & my body was stressed , I'm miserable, so is my son . His heart rate just would not stabilize! It was scary . The NST would not keep an accurate reading on him at all . So they had to break my water & stick a monitor on my sons head to monitor him better . Most painful thing I've ever had to encounter 😞 after breaking my water those contraction INTENSIFIED so bad !! The pain became unbearable! All I wanted was drugs & this baby out of me ! So with every tear & every fight I tried to put up my son could feel it ! Next thing you know nurses & doctors come running in the room pushing my family out of the way telling me to hurry up & turn over . His heart rate was severely low, his heart rate dropped from 130 to 78 bpm! they didn't want to continue with the induction & rushed me right into the OR for an emergency C-Section. I'm so scared at this point . I have never been rushed to the OR so fast .. Monitor still on my sons head all I hear the nurse say is , check the heart rate & see if we have time to do a spinal or just put her to sleep .. All I heard was SLEEP ! I'm getting the monitors hooked up to me . The catheters. All within about 10 mins this was all done . I'm shaking scared for my life hoping when I wake up , my son will be okayy .. Next thing you know I wake up in so much pain but all I could hear was my sons cry .. The sigh of relief that went through my mind .. At 1:36am July 30, 2016 my baby boy entered this world ! 😊💙 All this pain & he was so worth it . I didn't get a chance to hold him right away because I was in a severe amount of pain but when I finally got that chance ... 😍😍💙💙
@xoxoalexusss, wow! That was a lot to go through! You are so strong! Glad you are both ok! Thank God!!
God was so good to us that day ! I am so grateful! Thank you . @patti28
Oh my gosh this made me cry! It must've been so scary for you. I have two babies already and know labor can be so unpredictable. I'm glad you and baby are healthy! Praise God!
@mrsthig, thank you hunny! No pain meds , just strength & hope ! It's all I had !
@missdee, yes it's the most scariest thing ever . Thank you so much & same to you too !
Congrats!! Sounds similar to my birth story! I had to get an emergency csection baby's heart rate went from 150 to 50 and my blood pressure was high. She had to spend 10 days in the NICU. Scariest thing I've ever been through!
@rika25, yes I love it ! I couldn't be anymore blessed 😇
Scared momma but courageous is all I could be . 😌💪🏽 @ladyameliasmama
And good job by the way. I can't imagine how you must have felt. So courageous!
@ladyameliasmama, awesome happy belated! & thank you !
My son has to get a monitor on his head cuz his heart rate kept dropping & he was in the nicu for 2 days..but congrats mama
Congratulations mama!! Your son shares my husbands birthday!
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Amen . Thank you ! @angiek