@starrmom704, me too. I can 100% understand where your coming from

yes @mbrooke93 he does that all the time it pisses me off so bad

@starrmom704, omg that's her problem. and I've tried to talk to him about it but he says "well she is my baby" which I do understand but there's a point to not baby them. another problem is I say one thing and he undermines me and let's her do whatever she wants.. can't stand that

same here we play with them n my son is OK but he won't play he just cries if it's not just his dad. we went out in the yard and had a water fight the other day and as soon as he got hit with water he was crying and his dad took him inside and babyed him. that's his main issue he is babying him to much.

@starrmom704, I completely understand. and we do everything we can to include her in everything pretty much.

yes that's exactly how his son acts if me and my hubby be playing around with each other like we usually play fight and wrestle around and stuff or even cuddle on the couch if he sees us he will cry and actike something is wrong and once he moves he's fine. IDK what to do with him it pisses me off cause I raised him n I take care of him. @mbrooke93

@starrmom704, same situation here as well except this is my first child. but she wants all her daddies attention and throws fits as well. if I even say anything to her she acts like I beat the hell out of (obviously I never would)

@mbrooke93, his son doesn't listen to me either and cries every time I talk to him I basically raised him n he still acts like this after 3 years. I want him to be a part of there life of coarse but she is going to have to step up and be a mom to cause I'm going to need rest and I can't chase him around and get up every 10 mins to go do this n that for him n make him snacks. my oldest is 9 and he helps me and make sure I'm OK but my step son screams to the top of his lungs if my son does anything for him. I'm afraid I might end up spanking him for it and I don't wanna hear all that. If he can't get all of his dads attention all he does is cry like a baby

@starrmom704, I completely understand I don't blame you. his little girl acts the same and refuses to listen to me and has the worst tantrums over nothing. I mean don't get me wrong I still love her to death and want her to be apart of everything I just feel like the first week it would hurt for her to stay with her mom, just like we did when her mom had her brother and sisters

my hubby has a 4 year old son that basically lives with us and he acts like a baby so I told my bf when I go into labor his mom is going to have to come get him cause we are having triplets and I don't need him running around crying and acting like he can't do anything. I need at least a week or two maybe more cause I'm having a c section and he works most of the day.

I can understand why he would feel offended, but it wasn't bad of you to suggest it. I agree with what the previous comments say though.

Honestly if I were him I would also be offended. Those are both his kids, all three of you are his family, it makes sense that he would want her to be able to bond with her new sister and all of you together.

I do feel the same way, I just wanted that week after to bond with the baby and adjust, without her running around and acting out BC she has little to no boundaries/rules (not from me)

I think he would get offended because he just wants every one to be apart of the picture .. idk he probably doesn't want to feel like he's choosing favorites

it would offend him because he most likely thinks of her automatically included in the family. He is probably expecting you to feel the same way.