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Questions for the mommies: Letting my one month old sleep in our bed so he will stop crying - is that creating…

Questions for the mommies: Letting my one month old sleep in our bed so he will stop crying - is that creating dependency issues? I don't feel 100% comfortable with him still being so little but also I can't just let him cry all night. He will cry, calm down, maybe even fall asleep and start crying again. When he sleeps with us he's basicslly asleep all night. But I get barely any sleep because I wake up to check and make sure he's okay.

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melina.a.613

Melina AdamsМама сына-младенца

That does help a bunch! Thank you :) @yogabump

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missing563user

missing563user

Children don't develop the cognitive concept of object permanence fully until they are 2 years old. A one month old does not possess the brain development to KNOW that when you're not around, you don't cease to exist. You're definitely not at risk for dependency just yet; baby just probably feels legit alone if all the other needs are met. I started transitioning my son into his own room/crib around 6 months, if that helps 💕

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?