yes totally agree with you. im in the same page

@maya.rose, definitely not

@yogabump, right! I stopped going to school because I'm going to be at home with my baby in the fall

I quit my job and put my career on hold for this baby. I'm still in grad school but I miss achieving and having daily goals and being in the corporate world and being a professional so much! We've had the resentment talk where now it's all "his" money and "what have you done all day, watch tv?" and "why are you complaining, you're basically on vacation!" And we're both on edge about it. America, get obligatory affordable on-site childcare options already!!!!!!!!!

You are not alone, I feel the same. It is depressing and not what I expected.