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Anyone ever gone through custody battle basically right around the time you gave birth? CharleighAnn's dad isn't…

Anyone ever gone through custody battle basically right around the time you gave birth?

CharleighAnn's dad isn't agreeing to what I want and I'm sure he's gonna take me court when he realizes I won't just let him take her. But it's possible that this won't be realized until about the first of October. And I'm due November 2nd. So I could pop at any time starting October (I gave birth to my first right at 36 weeks). I just don't wanna have to go through all of it in the middle of the post partum emotional mess. I have a history of depression and I was miserable with certain situations after my first and I don't think I can handle court stuff and us bickering right when I give birth. My dad told me I shouldn't even tell him when I go into labor. /: but I honestly feel like that would look bad on me. I just don't wanna hand her over until we have legal documentation stating the agreement we have (whatever it may be). At this point I wouldn't put it past him to walk out of my life with her and never wanna look back.

Will your Mom be in the delivery room?

Will your Mom be in the delivery room? My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.

so far I have in my birth plan -delayed cord clamping (only to be cut when done pulsating) -NO eye ointment I don't have…

so far I have in my birth plan -delayed cord clamping (only to be cut when done pulsating) -NO eye ointment I don't have STD and that's the only way her eyes would get infected -Opting for Oral vitamin K they will not give her that shot -delayed first bath for 24/48 hours and I will be the one to bathe her with the help of nurses (they are born with that stuff on their skin for a reason.) If y'all have any other things I should look into please let me know:D