He going to say that he not gonna pay me alot in child support because his other kids and he know ways around child support is that stuff even true peoples advice??
My sons father chose drugs & his friends over my son & I. I wanna do things the right way to support & take care of my son because he wont do it so why is it so wrong to get his ass for child support?
I need some help/knowledge on child support and taxes?! Her father pays child support monthly.. My daughter lives with me, I haven't filed my taxes yet. I'm planning on doing it this weekend. My ex just texted me and said - "Hey my dad is doing my taxes for me and he needs ur social security number n your full name, cause I need to claim back some of the taxes from the child support. And he said u can still claim Mia it won't affect it he already asked the tax people. So if u can send it over that be great thanks." However, when I googled it...I found out child support is outside of taxes. I FEEL like he's lying to me to try to get my social so he can claim our daughter. Anyone know?!
Alrighty mamas. I have a lot on my mind and was wondering if I can rant for a min and then y'all can tell my what y'all think! So my oldest son has a different father. We were together for 5 1/2 years. We split 2 years ago because he wanted to drink, and golf, and hang out with everybody else more then his family. He has never really been a "dad" to my son. I got married soon after. We fell completely head over heels for each other and my life has been so perfect with my husband and he is ABSOLUTELY the best daddy to both of my boys. Even on our toughest days. Well I put my sons father on child support, and I was letting him go with him every other weekend when we first split. Anyways I found out that he was leaving my child with his pill popping mother who left my child alone by hisself once while she was suppose to be baby sitting. And he also stopped paying his child support in September. And since then has lost his job, lost his house, lost his car, and is ok drugs and drinks all the time. He currently lives in a storage building. He has no money. He has a junk car that has no insurance or tags. He has a warrant out for his arrest. He is very disrespectful towards me and is always calling me a bitch. I do not let my child see him. He has been robbed at gun point before. Not once but TWICE. He does not help support my son. He doesn't buy him anything. Expect a present for Christmas and his birthday. He doesn't offer to give him money or anything. On Saturday I asked him he could buy my son baseball cleats since he's going to start tball and he also needs baseball pants and he said he would and that he'd call tomorrow. He never called. He called yesterday and he had the stuff but he wasn't going to give it to me untill I let him see him. I told him he could come to the house at 5:30 and no later because we weren't going to wait on him. And then I get a message that he doesn't have a ride and he has a warrant so he's not coming into town, but yet the message before that he was calling me a bitch and saying he would give me the stuff when he saw his son? Like that makes any sense. I honestly don't feel like he even had it. Then he called later that night and asked to talk to my son and my son didn't want to talk to him. So sad. And then he called again and I just said no he doesn't want to talk and then he hung up on me. Mind you he didn't call my son for over 3 weeks! I also asked him to write a letter for his insurance so he could get back on insurance and he couldn't even do that! I'm so sick of his shit and I'm so tired of him being in and out of my sons life. I personally feel like until he gets his life together I need to cut the ties. Do you ladies think I'm wrong? My son is hurting and I can't watch my baby boy go threw this bullshit anymore.
Can you get a DNA test done right when baby is born? My deadbeat bd don't believe my son is his ultrasound clearly look like him plus need child support on that ass!
jozell·
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in Delaware he wouldn't have to still pay . the rule here is you don't have to pay if you have no rights
Brittany Kelly·
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I wonder if its like that if we live in Alabama and she lives in Florida? @jozell01 @dcsmommy257
missing268user·
no in Alabama if he signs his rights over he doesn't have to pay child support the kid is considered not his at all. UNLESS the judge thinks he's just trying not to pay and the judge can make it to where he has no rights and has to pay
Brittany Kelly·
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oh wow cause she's constantly asking him if he wants to sign his rights over and change his sons name cause my husband his other son and my husbands dad share the same name and my husband said no about the name changing and she don't let him see his son ever and he's like 900 dollars in the hole as of right now but he has been making payments like he's suppose to @hermommy
missing268user·
@mommy.to.be.041016 she doesn't let him see his son? Girl that's illegal especially with him paying child support behind or not. She's being overly petty from what it looks like. She shouldn't want her son to not have a daddy, that's just crazy especially with him tryinf
Brittany Kelly·
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exactly it's cause he's with me now but she left him and is jealous little... nvm I could go on about her Lol and I know girl her mom was the same way with her Dad and it got so bad he had to move out of the state and sign his rights over too because their nothing but little gold diggers over there she said he can only come if I'm not with him which he Wont do I told him it's okay and he refuses but when he tried to go one time she wouldnt return his phone call, changed her number, and now calls off a blocked number she's beyond petty ! @hermommy
missing268user·
women like that make me sick. I'd let the cops know she could get in MAJOR trouble for that, she can't put stimulation like that on him either. Have y'all thought about maybe trying for custody😩 or Like joint
Brittany Kelly·
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well there's a situation behind all this basically his son fell on his butt outside and busted his butt on a brick making it leave a linear bruise and at the time in Florida his babymomma was freaking out and wanted to take him to the hospital which I don't blame her but when they took him they tried saying my husband beat his child but yet there was no hand print so dcf got involved he had to go to court and everything that's another reason why they split up but I don't believe it for a second cause my son cries a lot and I haven't seen him lose control on him in fact if anything I'm the one that goes crazy and even on meds for it so I don't believe it for a second and now she's out wanting child support it's such a long story but I know in fact my husband did what he had to do and he would never hurt a child he even has little sisters that awkwardly use to call him dad but that's cause he was the only male around them @hermommy I swear she doesn't quit I'm actually thinking about talking to a police officer about it
missing268user·
@mommy.to.be.041016 shes crazy, kids fall😒 that's a part of learning and life. If Dcf really believed that then they're foolish as well. Your husband sounds level headed its her that has the issues, hospitals know kids fall and get hurt so she would've had to say she knows it was him. I feel for yall girl, I've net women like that who lie and try to get others in trouble for their own benefit. If she keeps up involved the police they'll handle it for sure dads that are dads don't deserve that!
Brittany Kelly·
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thank you girl he cried telling me about it and then told me if they really think that then why would he run up to me wanting me to hold him in the waiting room and then fall asleep on my chest kids that age would be scared and run somewhere else not to him dcf in Florida is crazy dude like he was still learning how to walk! his dad has cameras around the house and outside the house and he even told them they could check the footage to see if he did anything to him it's so sad girl @hermommy
missing268user·
😐😐 that makes me mad especially with him learning to walk of course they fall!!! But he was right about one thing no, a kid that was abused would not run to the person who abused them.... not even at that young of an age they know well enough to think he this person hurt me I don't want him. I hope it all passes that's ridiculous and shouldn't even be questioned DCF needs to focus on those that are actually abusing their children. This is the second case ive heard of with them messing with people that do nothing wrong and care
Brittany Kelly·
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exactly girl they need to get both sides before accusing plus till this day there's still video they won't watch it's ridiculous @hermommy
missing268user·
@mommy.to.be.041016 😒 about right is all I'll say, I know the judges will watch it. Florida seems real crooked are they a "mother" state.
Brittany Kelly·
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what's a mother state lol? and yes they are I had to go through the same stuff except it was a lot more serious but yes Florida might be fun but that dcf stuff ain't nothing to play with @hermommy
missing268user·
A mother state is for the mother, in a mother state it's very very hard to prove a mother is unfit etc, etc. sounds alot like what Florida is doing 😮
Brittany Kelly·
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well idk I mean it probably is now but Florida took me and my brothers away from my mom so im not sure but in that case I wouldn't doubt it @hermommy
missing268user·
@mommy.to.be.041016 that is sad girl. Goodness 😩