My sons father chose drugs & his friends over my son & I. I wanna do things the right way to support & take care of my son because he wont do it so why is it so wrong to get his ass for child support?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
So my mom bought this head and body support for my baby but it just seems so tight on there anyone know what's it's for? Do I really need it? Lol FTM
This is my son Walter. Today is his birthday. He would have been five. This picture was taken when he was 16 days old. He was my first child and my only son (I now have 3 girls). He passed away the next day after this picture from congenital heart failure. It was a miracle that he lived passed 12 weeks gestation because of how severe his heart defects were. I miss him so much, I can't believe it's been 5 years. It still hurts so bad. I don't talk about him a lot out loud because I end up bawling, so i thank you for letting me share this with you ladies. You have always been nice and supportive. Happy birthday son, your mom loves you.
So my son is 5 years old and he's very behind on knowing his ABC's and numbers and also writing his name. I don't know what to do because he starts kinder next month.
Ashley ·
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My husbands cousin is doing it now because her now husband got caught selling drugs out their house and she has go to have supervised visits and they have to be alone
Kaitlyn 💞·
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@mommysbabies, that's perfectly fine too thats what i was telling my mom
Ashley ·
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If you can prove all that he will probably only get supervised visit in the court appointed place he will also have to do drug tests too
Korahleah Sanchez·
Мама троих детей
Yeah it would. Because then you'd have to prove he's the father. But it will all work out 💙
Kaitlyn 💞·
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@korahleah_11, see i feel like it would be more difficult if i didnt put him on the BC
Korahleah Sanchez·
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And another thing, since your still pregnant. If you don't put him on the BC he automatically doesn't have any rights. So you could do that too. But also if you do that then file for CS they'll request DNA.
Kaitlyn 💞·
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@korahleah_11, im ready hoping that everything works out for me my son deserves so much!! Thank you 💙💙
Korahleah Sanchez·
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That's good! So if you do file; he might not even show, and if he doesn't you'll go in front of a judge and then present your proof & request for full custody & no visitation. If that's what you want! Judges in Texas usually lean towards the mothers so I hope everything goes in your favor ❤️ I know it hard, and it sucks!
Kaitlyn 💞·
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@korahleah_11, i have proof & witnesses
Korahleah Sanchez·
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Honestly. Since your in Texas. I personally wouldn't file for support right now. Because if he shows up to the meeting they will try to give y'all 50/50 custody and he will get every other weekend and unless you have proof he's unfit. That's what happened with me and now I'm filing to terminate his rights.
Kaitlyn 💞·
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@rikki.ferguson, @korahleah_11, @mommysbabies, @ilovemychildren, @kydensmommy, Yuup. I dont want my son around drug users in a house full of underage girls with condom wrappers & dirty dishes all over the place with drug paraphernalia laying around too. That's exactly what i saw when i went to get all my shit.
Rikki🌙·
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I'd file if I were you. You aren't wrong in doing so.
Korahleah Sanchez·
Мама троих детей
You can file and there is nothing wrong with it but if he's doing drugs, don't expect anything! Harsh, but I've been going threw the same thing. He's already 1500 behind.
Ashley ·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
You are not wrong some will always have something to say about the way you do things just ignore it
Buddhist Mama·
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Child support is your right as a mother. People don't understand how hard it is to raise a child and work a full time job to keep a roof over our heads.
Kaitlyn 💞·
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@kydensmommy, my mother has been through this & i made the choice to fill child support & take full custody because of the things he does & because of his environment but some people think im crazy for doing it!!
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It's not wrong he made the baby he needs to pay for the baby go get him!