I made the decision to cut my mum off when I found out I was pregnant. We hadn't been getting along for a long time and I knew it would be best for myself and my baby if she wasn't in either of our lives. After my parents split up my mum left me to live with my grandparents and auntie while she moved in with some guy she'd apparently only been dating a few weeks. She then basically forgot about me and wouldn't make the effort to come and visit me. I went longer and longer without seeing her and of course this took its toll on me how I could be so easily forgotten. It's a very long story but I decided to cut her off completely because all the stress wasn't good for me or the baby. We haven't spoke in a long time and I've been much happier ever since. I just have to deal with family members who know nothing, blaming me when I did nothing wrong and don't respect that I'm an adult and have made the right decision for me and my child. You'll know the best thing to do, just trust your instinct xx

she isnt... if anyone would of understood why she never got anything i thought she would of. we had no food in the house and spent all my money on that... just annoys me as she was meant to have my daughter while i had my second princess @noobii

I have nothing to do with my mum and i do absolutely fine without her, having a baby is a very scary time whether it is ur 1st or 4th. But trust me you will be just fine, she cabt be much of a mother if thats all it takes to cut you off, very pathetic in my opinion @sinlou93