Since I've been living with my BF I've found out he's lied to me about a big thing. It's kind of annoying because it was something really important with our child and he just made up a lie to get out if it. So it just makes me feel like he really doesn't care, which I've gotten that impression from him the whole time I've been pregnant 😕
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
R there any high risk mothers out there? I've been feeling so alone lately, like it's only happening to me😔😔😔
Okay So My Boyfriend Gets Mad Because I Don't Wana Have Sex I Just Don't Have That Drive Anymore Since I've Been Pregnant Nothing Against Him ,And He Texts Me Some Bullshit Like He's Not Gonna Ask For Sex Anymore He's Good ,And That He Is Turned Off By Me And The Way I've Been Acting And I'm Really Trying Not To Be A Bitch But It's About To Come Out!!!
Rant My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wrong, but he can really get on my nerves and makes me upset to the point I go to bed earlier than him and cry until I fall asleep. Idk if it's the hormones or something/: I try to be a great fiancé. But I always seem to fail /:
Alex·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (31 нед.)
So sorry I know how unfortunate that can be
Jess·
Sigh, I try not to let it bother me like everything else but sometimes it bothers me, especially since he just randomly took tomorrow off for no reason but he knew months in advance about this thing for our baby and when I confronted him about it at the time he's like well I have to take time off in advance blah blah made a big ta do about not being able to get time off and since I've been here he's requested a bunch of time off that week and got it. So it's like wow thanks for lieing to me about something important! 😒@bugmama
Alex·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (31 нед.)
That would be extremely frustrating. I am so sorry. I sit him down and say look this baby will be here in 8 weeks or less you need to get your priorities straight ( if you have the capability) say and if you don't I will take me and our child elsewhere until you do get your shit straight. With my son it took me almost moving 1200 miles by myself when our son was 4 months old for him to realize I was not joking and would leave his sorry ass if we weren't his priority he shaped up real quick. Also the lying this I would tell him if you can't trust him it's not worth it because communication and trust and 2 keys to a successful relationship.
I'm here for you if you need to vent or talk. ♡ *hugs* Men can be so damn frustrating.
Jess·
He's not one to 'chase' after women if I left he'd say it was my choice and not to be mad at him because I made the choice to leave. Our communication isn't very good. Our relationship has been pretty tough and his daughters are here right now till the first week of August so their is no talking to him or trying to work on us with them here. @bugmama