Hello Mommies, alright this might be a TMI post but here goes so my husnd and i had out beautiful baby girl in January when i had her i tore 4th degree so i was stitched up so we could have sex for 6 weeks after that, well in that time i noticed i had poo coming out of places it shouldnt have been so i we t in and told the doc well he said he didnt see anything wrong so he said wait a while see if it heals okay so my 6 week checkup comes around and i tell him i am still having the problem (this is after i have gone back in once before because i knew there was something wrong) still at my 6 week check up he said there was nothing wrong so i went in to my primary doctor he told me to keep getting on him about it so for 2 weeks i called bothering them talking to a nurse being prescibed things for possoble infection so finally said i needed to come back in well that time he found a hole this is after 8 weeks of having my daughter . so i had to go get surgery for that to fix it well it took another 6 weeks to heal okay so now its been about 4 weeks since we got the okay to have sex well i have NO sex drive none at all. is it because of what i went through or do u think i need something if thete is anything that helps you have a sex drive or what?!?! im not sure i love my husband and am very mich attracted to him amd we do not have marriage problems. anyome ever have this problem? ( sorry for the long post)