Ok..need a rant about my oh can't hold it in anymore!!
So we been together 6 years this may. He moved across the country to move in with my family, a few days after he did so we found out I was pregnant (unplanned). Well he had a decent job and lost it in December. We had a tricky relationship tbh when he lost his job sometimes as he seemed to lie about things. He's a 26 year old man ffs. Well he still isn't working, and our son is 3 months old. He pays my mum rent but never paid a penny towards our son I never asked him to. We started paying £50 each month into a joint account but he stopped when he stopped working. All day everyday ha either on a game on a laptop or his ps4. He does nothing around the house, often getting out of bed at 10/11, never cooked, cleaned washed clothes or anything. Like he doesn't even think about it. I ask him for help and he seems to get mardy. I love him and other than that he's a brilliant dad to our son he loves him but tonight he's upset me as he's said sometimes he thinks our son doesn't like him. I think because he hardly spends time with him and even though I breastfeed I do nearly everything! Any advice or help please😭😡💔
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