I'm so annoyed. But this is an annoyance that has been bubbling for a long time, 17 months to be exact give or take a couple days. I'm a working mother of 1 and I've currently been living with my parents until my fiancé and I get our finances together to move in some odd months (THANK GOD THATS HAPPENING FINALLY). Don't get me wrong I appreciate the fact that my mother watches my daughter when I work (and only when I work because she doesn't believe in me and hubby having alone time and honestly I'd rather have my daughter with us than any more prolonged contact with her grand parents anyways) but don't put yourself as her mother or her father when you're not. And don't blatantly disrespect me in front of my child either. Like literally just now he (my supposed father) tells my daughter "that is your mama" referencing to my mother as I was walking up the stairs to get her clothes for bath time. I turned around and looked at him like "are you serious" he saw and just looked down. Then as I'm coming down the stairs I hear him say to my mother "when I said that she turned and looked at me" and he starts laughing. My mother does the same things he does.

I seriously can not wait for hubby and I to move. We're leaving and not ever visiting because the lack of respect for the both of us as parents, the comments said both to us and behind our backs about our parenting and just about us in general, the blatant disregard for the schedules and nutritional plan we work hard to keep her on has been and continues to be disgusting. Ok end of ranting 😪😪