I Need Someone's Advance!!! I'm Pregnant With Twins & My Kids Dad Is No Help!!! He's 27 And He Already Has 3 Kids... He Doesn't Go To Any Of My Appointments. He Blocks Me Off Of EVERYTHING!!! Never Answers My Calls. Everyone Says I Should Get Him For Child Support But I Don't Wanna Be A Bitch.. Someone Help Me!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. Deff thankful for my family atm. I will start to do eBay too . I have stuff i can sell... anything to help out alittle help my husband ... whatever i can do.
can somebody helo me i need money for my kids
I need help!!! Something is wrong with my dog and I have no money or job to take him to the vet. I think hes dying idk
Domonique·
thanks Girls I Really need this!
Cheyenne Mullis·
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Girl get him for child support! He's 27 years old! He's a man he needs to step up and act like one and support his kids. It's not your fault he already has three kids and you can't help it he now has two more to help support. If he was man enough to lay down and make those babies he needs to be man enough to step up and support those babies! Don't let him think he's gonna get away with this just because your young! Show him your a women and you will do what it takes to do what's best for your babies!
Katie·
Мама дочки (9 лет), беременна (30 нед.)
I hate to sound mean but I hardly think it's bitchy to accept child support. You both made those children why should you struggle alone or your kids go without? Child support guidelines go off what both parents make and the needs of the child.
Domonique·
I feel so much better about it thanks Girls I really appreciate it!
Kenia·
Мама сына (9 лет), беременна (23 нед.)
Think about it like this. The money is NOT for you. It's for his kids. Your kids. You want them to have a comfortable life. Have whatever they need. You're not being a bitch. He's being a bitch for not being responsible
Domonique·
thanks Girls I really appreciate it!
Domonique·
I just wish he would grow up and handle his shit so I wouldn't have to do this
Karna Marie·
Мама двоих (младенец)
You would be a bitch for not going after him. By law he owes full child support and he also has to provide health care and child care (most states, some vary) You don't have to have anything to do with him. The state can deduct support from his pay check and give it to you. If he refuses then once they get his pay checks deducted he will then owe you back pay for child support. You do right by your child fuck him.
💕Rakiyia💕·
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Oh yeah you should definitely make him pay child support since he acts like he doesn't wanna help and take ownership for his responsibilities 👌😏💸
felicia·
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I agree with @mimiz if he isnt going to help willing then you have no choice. You are going to need help since you are going to have two mouths to feed. It aint going to be cheap for you to pay for everything for two babies at the same time. Woman struggle with raising one on their own.
Domonique·
True But I Dont Want Him To Think I'm Using Him For His Money When I Would Put It To His Kids Stuff.
Mimi·
Мама дочки-младенца
🙄 how are you being a bitch if he doesn't want to help. If he were trying to help that's different