I Need Someone's Advance!!! I'm Pregnant With Twins & My Kids Dad Is No Help!!! He's 27 And He Already Has 3 Kids... He Doesn't Go To Any Of My Appointments. He Blocks Me Off Of EVERYTHING!!! Never Answers My Calls. Everyone Says I Should Get Him For Child Support But I Don't Wanna Be A Bitch.. Someone Help Me!
Girl get him for child support! He's 27 years old! He's a man he needs to step up and act like one and support his kids. It's not your fault he already has three kids and you can't help it he now has two more to help support. If he was man enough to lay down and make those babies he needs to be man enough to step up and support those babies! Don't let him think he's gonna get away with this just because your young! Show him your a women and you will do what it takes to do what's best for your babies!
I hate to sound mean but I hardly think it's bitchy to accept child support. You both made those children why should you struggle alone or your kids go without? Child support guidelines go off what both parents make and the needs of the child.
Think about it like this. The money is NOT for you. It's for his kids. Your kids. You want them to have a comfortable life. Have whatever they need. You're not being a bitch. He's being a bitch for not being responsible
I just wish he would grow up and handle his shit so I wouldn't have to do this
You would be a bitch for not going after him. By law he owes full child support and he also has to provide health care and child care (most states, some vary) You don't have to have anything to do with him. The state can deduct support from his pay check and give it to you. If he refuses then once they get his pay checks deducted he will then owe you back pay for child support. You do right by your child fuck him.
Oh yeah you should definitely make him pay child support since he acts like he doesn't wanna help and take ownership for his responsibilities 👌😏💸
I agree with @mimiz if he isnt going to help willing then you have no choice. You are going to need help since you are going to have two mouths to feed. It aint going to be cheap for you to pay for everything for two babies at the same time. Woman struggle with raising one on their own.
True But I Dont Want Him To Think I'm Using Him For His Money When I Would Put It To His Kids Stuff.
🙄 how are you being a bitch if he doesn't want to help. If he were trying to help that's different
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
AF due 29th, anyone else?
Hi all AF is due 29th Sept for me feels like forever away. Has anyone tested yet or when do you plan on testing x
thanks Girls I Really need this!