am I wrong for telling the father of my child I do not want him to be there for the birth. He mentally abused me for a very long time, when he found out I was pregnant with his child he wanted me to have an abortion. I left him because he wasnt happy that I made the choice of having my daughter. He has constantly harassed me saying I trapped him, and saying that she should not be here still but wants to be at the hospital. I do not want to stress out the day I am in labor with all the negative comments from him. Am I wrong for keeping him from a child he doesn't want?
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Oh yes please do NOT take in anyone to be with you at the time of birth that you're uncomfortable with. It's super important to stay as stress free as possible at that time.
i wouldn't and if you really don't tell the nurses you don't want him there
Sounds very similar to my situation. I don't want my child's father at the birth either. I told him and he didn't seem upset about it so mines won't be there but if you feel like it would be to much for you then don't have him there. I no what it's like to be mentally abused and being told to get an abortion and once your done, your done! But it's your decision at the end of the day. Good luck momma!
nope