hey so im turnin 20 this month, due oct. 12 and damn im havin cold feet. I moved in with my bf last year and all i want to do is go back home to momma 😢 I miss all my brothers and sisters its so quiet here and im alone all week except sat n sun cuz the bf is off. i have expressed that id like to go home but he doesnt care he just wants me to be here and be miserable. i have no car or job right now nd i feel like havin this baby is going to be my rock bottom. yes i know babies r blessings and lalala but i feel so robbed of my youth I have no goals set nothing here i feel like living with mom will be easier cuz i dont want any of this right now. i tell my bf but he just gets sad and upset that im not happy aboout having a family. ummm what part of cleaning up after two of u plus myself am i suppose to be happy about? i didnt sign up to be a stay at home mom in fact thats a nightmare thats becoming my reality and i want out😢
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I really don't mean to sound harsh but you made choices now it's time to grow up and live with the
I understand how you feel but like someone above mentioned, You were doing grown up stuff so grow up. You can't play sex and then when you get pregnant your like... I don't want to do this anymore. You should have been on birth control or used protection. It's not the babies fault. Now this whole thing is a big inconvenience for you but it was fun when you were doing part of grown up stuff (sex).
Sounds more like you're afraid to grow up. You'd rather be in the comfort of knowing your mother will help vs having to actually be the mother taking care of yourself and your kids. If your Bf is used to being an adult and taking care of bills and himself that may be why he's not understanding where you're coming from. He's being an adult and setting up an adult life and you're concerned about your youth. I had my daughter 10 days before I turned 21. My son at 22. Granted I was married but I had to step into that role of mommy and adult quickly and it's definitely worth it.
I was 21 when I found out I was pregnant with my first but I gotten married at 20 so I know the feeling of wanting to go back home but my question is do you really want to? You have your freedom and such without having to worry about what other think yeah I know it's hard being independent and living the life of an adult but it's worth it ☺️ having a child at a young age is nothing all you got to do is be the best mother you can be to your child and I know you can do it!! :) I'm turning 22 this month and all I think about is feeling old lol 😂😂😂
how about adoption? I know it's a hard thing at a young age but I mean you knew what you were getting yourself into. I don't want to sound mean but it is the truth. now you eitj we need to deal with it and take care of the baby and put that baby a needs before your own and basically grow up or talk to the father ans be honest with him and give the baby up for adoption and I'm your case a closed case onem
@francesgln92fr i wanna go home and when i have the baby i would like to just give him to him but i know my mom wont let me give the baby to him. i just dont want to be a mom i just feel like i cant handle that responsibility. im trying to want it but i dont know how to want something that i dont.
So you don't want the baby? or you want to live at home with the baby
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