my husband and I have been though some pretty rough times, having nothing and not getting any support. Working long hours and just feeling as though it pays the bills and keeps us alive, living from pay check to pay check. His family favour his sister and therefore we get no help. Have never gotten any help. My parents died when I was small but we still wanted a baby I used my savings and literally all them to afford a wedding and a house as my husband was poor didn't even have a penny to his name. His parents bought his sisters wedding bought her a car and she got given a house bought for her and Rick got nothing. Rick is staying on at work for 12 hours even more. While his sister is jetting of to Tenerife another holiday and somewhere else the following month. the truth is she probably has a lot saved that she keeps on boasting about because she has never had to use any of her savings. She's never had no-one to help her. I'm so happy that at least we have managed as a couple.