Ok so my friends baby is turning one this weekend and I'm going to the party. She was kinda friends with my ex-fiancé so…

He sounds really insecure. I'm sorry you're dealing with that! I know like 6 Ryan's also.

@jennatess, thanks Hun! Yeah it's super common. Didn't think I was doing anything wrong

He's the one that wanted you to ask then got mad at how you asked? He needs a chill pill. I prolly woulda used his last name too.

Yup. I wasn't gonna ask because I was sure she wouldn't invite him if I'm going. But he told me to ask. And then complained about how I did it... Thank you! @momma1108

@mamesey, is he insecure about your relationship with ex?

@surprise4 Yeah he is

I don't even communicate with my ex. He's blocked on everything

My daughter just kicked him in the balls so that helps with my mood 😂

@mamesey, I know the feeling, explaining that there's a reason your ex and you aren't together worked for me thousands of times and that we are a family and ex isn't even a factor thousands of times. Finally got through to him

Ugh I hope that works for me eventually! I've done that too but he just doesn't care :( hopefully he will one day. This is getting old @surprise4

@mamesey, I was combative and asked if he was so worried about ex why didn't he just go be with him. Huge blow up more so because I laughed at his anger, so that approach handling him with "kid gloves" worked and now I rarely hear about my ex.

Hmmm good idea!!! @surprise4 thank you!!

@mamesey, you are welcome, don't let it drive you insane.