yes I'm a single mom and yes my daughter is going to have my last name I refuse to give my daughter the name of a BOY…

Anytime love!

thank you so much I honestly need it @lashellg

Im sure you have lots of support and I'm here to support also. I developed post partum depression after my son bc I let a lot of that get to me. They were there when I had him but barely seen him in 2 yrs. And at one point they were only 20 min away! And right now we're still not that far away. I'm just glad you're a strong woman.

his not even going to be there for her birth he lives 5 hrs away he has a job tho if he wanted to see her he can get on the bus but his not @lashellg

@taiboos_mommy16, My son's dad is not on his birth certificate so he automatically has my last name. My daughter's last name is hyphenated with both of our names. Its whatever you choose and what's best for you. I wish I would have just given her mine. Even though her dad is there he hasn't done too much but his family has and I just didnt want the argument. My daughter is 9 and only want to use my last name. No judgment here at all. And I agree if there not worth it don't do it bc you will regret it. I know I did with her.

do what you feel is right for your child no judgment I'm just saying if they really haven't done anything to earn it why give it to them @kendallraesmommy

I'm still debating on my kiddos last name...

@taiboos_mommy16 I agree with you 100% that's what I was trying to say lol I just used my situation as the issue

exactly what I told my BD my baby don't need a sometime daddy @quitadon

its really based how you grew up in the situation I feel that its only right to name your child after someone you know will be there even if your not married or together its about the parenting to me not who made you because I know I would change my name to my moms name still in a heartbeat but I plan on meeting someone I'll spend my life with later in life lol @hermommy but I completely understand you I never meet my father if it wasnt on Facebook msgs @jasminemaye

@taiboos_mommy16, I'm sticking with my decision! He hasn't been to any doctor appointments , He hasn't called to see if we're good, He hasn't showed an ounce of care or compassion! No I wasn't ready for this but I WILL do what's best for my DAUGHTER! I will never stop him from trying to be apart of her life! But he will not bounce in and out of her life whenever he pleases! I told him if he's not going to be consistent then I don't want him around at all!

I have my moms and dad's last name and I saw my dad once every like 3 years if that. so I do understand

@nienie my dad was basically a sperm donor to me and my mom gave me his last name I HATED being named after a stranger and didn't think it was fair I had to be different from the ones who loved me and were actually there so I'm sticking with @taiboos_mommy16 on this one and all the others. Why would you want to be named or name your child after someone that just doesn't care.

@nienie, thanks for the suggestion but she's getting my last name her father has chosen his own path just like my father did and I hate that I have my fathers last name I wouldn't mind if he actually wanted to be in her life but he doesn't why name her after a stranger basically ? honestly I'm on your moms side with naming you after her I mean I'm the the one spending my time providing and teaching her the lessons she needs to learn her father is basically a sperm donor he hasn't ask if she is okay nothing idk your life and why you changed your name but I appreciate my mom for everything she's done for me because if she wasn't there idk where I would be that's just my decision I don't speak for the other ladies 😇😇😇@babybird080316 @harpersmamabear @hermommy @j.echo @jessie433 @jasminemaye @lashellg @newmama2016 @quitadon

I decided to give my baby her dads last name. we're "together" but he hasn't helped take care of her once. hasn't even changed one diaper. my daughter is 5 weeks.

Kid don't have no choice in no name

My mother was in the same boat now that I am older I switched my last name. To be honest let the kid decide when they are old enough to but hats off to you ladies for stayin in there

same boat lady ❤

amen to that

same here I refuse he ain't been there since day 1 my ex is there more den her sperm donor

Same boat. 💯

We might as well start a cruise ship 😂😂😂

i refuse to deal with nonsense lol @s_r_z_15 especially from someone not doing anything for my child

I feel u! my 7 yr old has my last name and so will dis baby...I give no props to deadbeats or petty assholes

Same boat! Sucks. Like, you wanna be immature and childish and take off but demand she have your last name? Bitch please 😂 Hopefully you don't have to deal with drama :(

we in it together lol @babybird080316 @j.echo @newmama2016 @quitadon

Same here! He hasn't earned the right if her carrying his last name!

Single mom power! @quitadon @taiboos_mommy16 @babybird080316

I'm down ☺️@taiboos_mommy16 @newmama2016 @babybird080316

✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾 hell yeah

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we can row the boat together lol @babybird080316 @quitadon @newmama2016

Same Boat..

Nope we in the same boat mama

Yasss! In the same boat...

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hell no he doesn't deserve the last name, preach momma!

Preach!!!