I feel like a single mom bcuz I do everything by myself

Exactly! I already know I'm in for it because he didn't help the first time around

It pisses me off to the point where I want to just cry. He thinks he's tired. I want him to take care of a 13 month old an a newborn by himself while cleaning the house, making dinner, an recovering from giving birth for 1 day. I really wish men could carry a baby inside them for 9 months so they can see what us women go through. I want them to go through the pain we have to go through. He doesn't have to get up in the middle of the night to a crying baby to change a diaper an feed a baby. He doesn't have to chase after a 13 month old while trying to feed a newborn. All he does is work, eat, an sleep bring home money an get what the kids need. That's it. He doesn't have 100 things to do everyday. An he talks about how he wants to relax. You laid down with me to make the babies, you should at least help me. Its part of your responsibility too an not just one

my exact argument with my husband tonight. my son is 2 weeks old and I have a 3 year old. my husband has yet to get up once in the middle of the night. yes I know he works but I do everything else and I'm still recovering from birth!

I understand girl, & I just have one child! Men don't get it.