ok so moms what was the plan whenever you gave birth with a toddler back at home? how long did you leave him for? what was the plan? I'm gna be taking my son to my sisters house but just meanwhile i deliver after that idk if my husband should stay with me or if he should pick him up and be with him at our house while I'm in the hospital
@heavensent3, yes I was induced and made my hubby stay the whole night and if you have even a decent nurse they will help at the hospital I delivered at my baby had a different nurse then I did, but they where all helpful.
daughter with be with my sister she will bring her to visit while in the hospital , but she will be returning home with us when we get discharged hubby will be with me the entire stay
@aphrodite2014, yes i knw that's what i told my husband hopefully the nurses will help me out a little too and my husband could just come in and be with me for a while then go bck home with our son i just want him to be with me while i deliver cus it will be by c section n i don't want to be alone for that day
@elenalee, @courtneywarner yes i would do the same too but my mom has 5 year old too that likes to hit my son and i don't want to be worrying ab that while I'm at the hospital so i decided to leave him w my sister cus she has no kids but she still works so i can't leave him w her the whole time
I'd say plan to have your little one stay with a family member the entire stay just in case.. but I won't lie it was nice to have time with my son to bond without anyone bothering me, and he went to the nursery at night and they just brought him back to feed so no reason for my hubby to be up there in the uncomfortable bed..
My daughter will stay with my parents and come every morning and evening while I'm in and my husband will stay with me
Mine stayed with grandma. I was in the hospital 2 nights and husband stayed with me.
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