Did anyone else feel almost guilty when the time came to have the second baby? It was just my son and I for 1 1/2 yrs before my SO came along and my son and I are super attached. It's like I'm sad he won't be my only baby anymore. Please no judgement!
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U will b for a Lil while and even after she is born u will have a hard time trying to split ur time between the 2 kids. Let him help and do as much as he wants to help u with the baby it'll be great bonding time for all 3 of u and he's not gonna hate the fact of someone new comin into ur lives. Make sure to still spend 1 on 1 time with him also as much as u can and I promise everything will b ok @cheylea5
Yeah my son is spd and adhd so any change for him is super hard. And it breaks my heart to see him struggling with it. But I'm hoping once she is here and he sees he can help with her and stuff it will be different. I never wanted another but I love my daughter.
@mandy890, that's how I feel! It's like he won't understand that he has to share me with her. He is the type of child to act out also..
He's 3 1/2 and he's been my rock. I was the type that only wanted one, BUT she is a blessing. I don't regret her one bit, I think I'm just realizing he has to share me and I'm worried about it. @cubanese @lost041 @motheroftwojk @mrsthig @nygirl3rdbabymiami
I feel the same way. It's been me and my son for 6.5 years. I am a single mom. So once my daughter is born it's going to be a HUGE change. I'm scared of having to split time between both my babies
I never wanted just one child but I am worried about how its going to be with a 17month old and a newborn I'm like worried I'll be to busy worried about the newborn to play with my daughter etc. plus she's the type who has to be the center of attention all the time , she hates it when someone hugs be while she's around or vice versa with her dad especially her dad I can't even hug or kiss him around her an I'm kinda scared because this will be her dads first biological child and I'm worried she's going to be super jealous so yes I totally understand how you feel ...
my baby is gonna b 9 in August I didn't want anymore kids after him and been on bc for yrs my bf has a 14yo and 4yo and we found out I was pregnant 3 weeks ago. I can't imagine life with a newborn again much less a newborn and toddler but we're gonna do the best we can. I love all of our kids and I know it's gonna b hard for a Lil while but I know we can do it
my sons are 8 yrs apart, it was a big help,, can't imagine a toddler and newborn, good luck I woupd just make alone time for each child with what they like to do
same here my son is 1year and two months and im 7 weeks pregnant