Мама дочки (4 года)

last night my brother had one of his blow ups, and tried convincing the sheriff that was choked slammed by our father…

last night my brother had one of his blow ups, and tried convincing the sheriff that was choked slammed by our father (who mind you, isn't even able pick up my 30 pound 4 year old, let alone a 180 pound 23 year old). He's mildly retarded, but he also knows how to milk every situation. He's only been home since Halloween, and has lied about everything. Including my daughter's Easter candy just magically ending up in his room eaten. (ya the little dick ate 5 bags of candy in less then a day and claimed he had nothing do with the garbage being hidden in his room) but last night was the worst thing he's done so far. he ran away saying he was going to kill himself, so my bf and dad followed him to make sure he didn't do anything stupid. he slipped and fell while trying to run on a rocky edge by the river, and turned it into him getting choked slammed. so my mom and dad decided last night he needed to go back to the state facility because none of us can handle his blow ups. the sheriff took him over to my sister's and he filled her full of garbage, and with whatever he said to her got DCFS sent to MY house to investigate my daughter being abused and me and my bf being on drugs. first off, the ONLY time my daughter gets into any trouble is when she is disrespectful, lies, or steals. what child wouldn't? her hair was cut because she ripped it out because she thought it was fun and no matter what we did she wouldn't stop. it wasn't abusing her. and as for us being on drugs, really?!? we don't even allow cigarettes in our house, why the fuck would we allow what ever kind of drug you said we were using into it? the sheriff couldn't tell DCFS what drug we are supposedly using, so they couldn't pin point anything, but tested us for everything. and guess what, WE ARE BOTH CLEAN!!! and now parents want me to forgive my brother for lying to the cops and having DCFS show up to my house. I almost went to jail last year for DEFENDING my daughter because he hit her, and now this shit?? how the fuck could they even ask me to forgive him?!?!?

there isn't any way possible for me to forgive him. he is ONLY MILDLY retarded, and they only diagnosed him as that beside he is a slow learner. when he hit my 4 year old (they are 20 years apart in age) I flipped a biscuit and hit him, not hard, but enough to get attention. I almost went to jail because my mom pulled the "he'd never hurt anyone he just didn't understand it's not OK to hit a toddler". and then last night he said I was beating her and doing drugs.. seriously?!? I have never been so angry in my life. I'm 26 weeks today, and have been high risk, and him pulling his crap has me on my way to labor and delivery to stop labor again. but my parents want me to forgive him, as my mom says, "he just doesn't understand what he's doing". but he does... oh he knows EXACTLY what he's doing. and here's doing it for attention, he's doing it so he doesn't have to do anything but play his stupid video games!

15.05.2016Ответить

ShilissaМама двоих (5 лет, 8 лет)

I'm in the same boat with my brother. He isn't even close to being slow or retarded he just doesn't care. He shows up at my house unannounced and didn't leave for three days and didn't even ask me if that was ok, let his daughter trash my house, left her with my 8 year old daughter while I was taking a nap and his daughter is only 2 and very high maintenance, lied to us about being on probation, came back at 2 am from being gone all day and woke my husband up to smoke weed (which my husband was pissed about cuz he had to work at 5 am), invited some bitch I didn't even know to my house at 2 am, tried to smoke pills out of a pipe with my kids in the next room sleeping, left the crushed pills on the freaking counter where I prepare food and on the kitchen table where my kids eat, and then I found out he was actually hiding out at my house cuz he had cleaned out his ex girlfriends bank account cuz he had her card after she got her taxes deposited. Talk about not being able to forgive somebody! I won't ever forgive him, he could've killed my kids! And yes I called cps on him after he left cuz he had the nerve to push me on my stomach when I kicked out the door and I was like 28 weeks along at that point. I know ur struggle, sometimes u just can't forgive people.

15.05.2016Ответить

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.

At What Age Should a Child Make Their Own Breakfast?

Make your own breakfast! At what age do you think a child should be making their own breakfast? I have a 10 year old and I think he is perfectly capable of making himself breakfast. It doesn't take rocket science to put some waffles into the toaster, or microwave some pancakes. My husband insists that he needs to have breakfast made for him because if we left it up to him he wouldn't eat enough and it would take him forever.

So mamas I need advice. We take our son to the gym with us and they watch him in their kid care. Well this will be the…

So mamas I need advice. We take our son to the gym with us and they watch him in their kid care. Well this will be the third time that we’ve gotten called in there to get him because he’s supposedly doing something we’ve never seen or heard of him doing. When I went in there, the girl was holding him, he was in tears and so happy to see me and wanted me to pick him up. I told her I wanted to see him doing what he was supposedly doing. He went on to play with a toy nicely so I told him to come to me, picked him up and signed him out. While my man was still working out, I walked straight up to the general manager and told him I wanted to speak with him in his office. We reviewed the cameras together and my son was IN FACT not doing anything wrong but playing and she grabbed him by his arm for NO REASON and slammed him on the ground and he was on the ground for a good minute before getting back up. Right then and there was when we were called to come get him because he was supposedly throwing heavy toys at kids (which he never does). The manager apologized and then told us he would talk to her... what should we do?

okay I need to vent because I'm extremely pissed right now. my friends bf beat her up and people are blaming her for it…

okay I need to vent because I'm extremely pissed right now. my friends bf beat her up and people are blaming her for it because he is a drug addict and saying she knew what she was getting into by being with him. now hold the fuck up, just because someone is a drug addict does not mean they will be a women beater no one could have predicted this happening and when people wanna say I don't know what I'm talking about cause I "don't know what drugs do to you" listen here little bitch I had a severe problem with drugs I know what they do to you. what he did does not having any connection with being a drug addict to being a women beater. I'm so pissed that you would try and blame the victim for this. 😤😠😤😠

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!