My husband totally jerked it while I was sleeping last night. (Left the semen in the toilet) he's denying it. I'm not dumb. I don't get why he has to lie. I know I'm not as hot as I once was since im 26 weeks pregnant. My feeling are hurt and now i feel more insecure than I did before. What do I do?
Hi I am into my 15 week now But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though What should i do i am very confused Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
So how do you Ladies feel about birth control. I'm against it cause I want my body to do what it naturally does. I've faced infertility issues so I'm not for it but my mom feels I should be on it after I have Tyson.
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Birth Plan Rant I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
Aviva Rich·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (30 нед.)
Thank you. I feel better :) @vee_bayybee_ @ria03 @christineg
Vanessa·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
your beautiful. men just Have needs. my boyfriend Masturbates prob twice a day hes just a horny person. dont feel hurt in anyway
roshon·
@arich13, men jack off all the time!! It's natural...don't feel like your not attractive if anything your even more beautiful because of all the wonderful change's your body is going threw like bigger boobs and longer healthier hair!!!😍😃 don't read to much into it bet he feels more uncomfortable than you being as he got caught lol
Christine Gonzalez·
В ожидании первенца
Awe don't feel insecure about it. My husband told me he does it in the shower but it's had nothing to do with that he's not attracted to me. Men are pretty straight forward, so if your really worried, just ask him. It could be something as simple as he knew you were tired and didn't wanna bug you. And the fact that you caught him could have just embarrassed him. Communication is key in the relationship so just let him know how it made you feel and you just need to know if your worries are justified 👍🏽
Monique·
Мама двоих (5 лет, 7 лет)
@msj1996, I completely agree with your point on being with someone and them acting like a child not being able to control their hormones. my husband addressed my feelings about it and doesn't do it at all. he will resort to going straight to sleep if I'm not up for it. talk to him about it and really express how you're feeling
Morgan·
В ожидании первенца
@arich13, it hurts my feelings when I find out my husband masturbate too. We are married for goodness sake, and he's not 12 anymore. No I don't always feel up to it but I think he should be able to control his hormones. I've caught him masturbating in the bed next to me and that's something that really hurts. That's just my view on if.
Jackee·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
he's probably embarrassed about it and maybe he forgot to flush. I wouldn't read too much into it, maybe the mood struck him out of nowhere while you were sleeping. a little tmi but I'm guilty of going down stairs to take care of myself while my husband snores loudly in our bed lol. it just happens but it doesn't mean I don't love him or desire him. it just means I got horny and I had to take care of myself. lol takes me 2 minutes.
Aviva Rich·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (30 нед.)
@maybaby2016, he would have had sex with me and I would have with him. We do it at least twice a week. He knows I don't feel comfortable in my own skin right now. I know masterbation is normal but usually he's horny all night and then goes to sleep with a boner. Last night there was no indication of being horny. He left all the clues out which he's never done. Like he wanted to get caught. Why is he lying?
milasmomma·
Мама дочки-младенца
You are beautiful and he may have done that because you were sleeping 😊 nothing to be insecure about! Im sure he loves you just as much as before the pregnancy (probably more now than ever) and might be embarrassed lol. Use it against him haha when he doesn't do dishes or does something you don't like (not this situation) be like, at least I'm not jacking off into a toilet for my wife to find out 😂
Jackee·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
masturbation is natural, is it the act itself that has you upset or are you just feeling insecure because he won't have sex with you? would you have been willing to have sex? I need to know the full story before I can actually offer you any advice. you can't really blame him for masturbating if you're not willing to be sexually active with him. Regardless, he should have been honest with you about it though.
Autumn·
be straight up I saw this... I'm not comfortable with you lying and I'm not feeling the best about my body these days... I need you to be attentive to me... no need to ask why just address the hurt and move on