I hate myself so much! I made poor choices and now my child won't have a father in her life, I don't deserve too live 😢 all I ever wanted was a family, I wanted to be married before I had kids, and now IMA fuck up cuz the dad doesn't even love his own child! how dare I put my child through this, my heart hurts so bad!! I look at her and break down every time . I'm the only one taking care of her and loving her, how could he not love his own blood 😢😢 fuck man! fuck my life
@mamesey mine never came back bc he caused too much damage. But I focused only on my baby and me and eventually found someone new when I wasn't even looking. Everyone's situation is different though, just make your baby your # 1 :)
Oh sorry I read it wrong. My baby's dad came around and regrets the awful things he did. Even tried to slip me abortion pills without me knowing. It was a horrible pregnancy because of him. But he eventually came around and loves her.
My story is the same as @crisfenzo he may come around
Please don't blame yourself we can't help who we love. Plus God choose you for a reason to be that baby mother cause he know you would rock as a mother. A mother will bend over backwards for their child, will go hungry, will go without so their child could have and will always love them. He is missing out not only on the love of a child but every first that thankfully you will see and only experience keep your head up and if you ever need someone to talk to I'm here for you
My daughter's biological dad wanted nothing to do with her while I was pregnant with her. It broke my heart but I pushed through it for my little girl and now he regrets it since we're doing fine without him. Just focus on your baby and love her enough for you and her absent parent. Everything will fall into place for you mama.
Idk what you are going through, but you can't blame yourself if he chooses to be ignorant and not love his own flesh and blood.
I need to ask someone this have you literally regret having a child with someone. I love my daughter with all my heart but I really regret ever being with her dad.
My Family is always saying how unattractive my BF is... What I Love about him is his personality. I Don’t See Him As Ugly. But Now That We Are Trying To Have A Baby Again, I Find Myself Concerned With How Our Child Will Look....as Shallow as it sounds... I’m afraid. I Know I’m DEAD wrong But I Don’t Want Our Baby To Be Made Fun Of His/Her Whole Life Like My SO was Just Because Of Their Looks. I don’t want a child with anyone but him. Why Am I Feeling this Way all of a sudden?
My specialists told me that my baby has an extra finger on the left hand and then asked me if I wanted to get that amniocentesis test.
🙄 No ma’am!! I’ll love my child with his or her extra finger or extra ANYTHING before I get that risky ass test.
How many single mom ever been put in a situation when ur mom doesn't want ur child's father to see his child but threatened to get custody of ur children if u let the child go to their dad ( which my child loves her daddy )
Not having a mom right now really fucking sucks. My birth mom is a POS and I refuse to let her be a part of my life. And my step mom is in my life daily but she's such a bitch and favors her sons and their wives over me so she's basically dead to me too! So annoyed I could cry for days. Fucking hormones! 😢
Yeah I realized I read that wrong, sorry! And good for you! :)