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Shalyn Carden

My specialists told me that my baby has an extra finger on the left hand and then asked me if I wanted to get that…

My specialists told me that my baby has an extra finger on the left hand and then asked me if I wanted to get that amniocentesis test.

🙄 No ma’am!! I’ll love my child with his or her extra finger or extra ANYTHING before I get that risky ass test.

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blessed2018w9

blessed2018w9

Amen to that! I was offered that for my daughter this pregnancy to confirm the Down syndrome.. NOPE! I love her regardless no need for testing.. Don't worry about it hun baby will be absolutely perfect your baby is born with a special gift just like my little Journee. God only gives the special ones to special parents

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Olivia

Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

🙌🏽 PREACH! I always decline that test. Nothing and I mean NOTHING is going to make me love my kids less

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shay2beautiful

Shalyn Carden

@tooserious86, yes he does

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Jocelyn C

Мама двоих (6 лет, 8 лет), ждёт третьего

Jesus has the final say so!!

shay2beautiful

Shalyn Carden

@o.shyann15, all I had was sore boobs

o.shyann15

shy

How did you feel when you first found out you were pregnant? Did you have any symptoms right away ?

motherof3nigerianprincesses

Shae

My baby was born with two! One on each hand

shay2beautiful

Shalyn Carden

@stevens.mary18, exactly. I’ll love my child regardless!

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Mary Kinney

Would have said the same thing as long as baby as my baby lives I don't care what it looks like I will love it anyways

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Kayla

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (16 нед.)

@shay2beautiful you're welcome 😊

shay2beautiful

Shalyn Carden

@gummybear728, Thanks love

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Kayla

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (16 нед.)

I can't believe they would suggest that for an extra finger. Like uhmmm excuse me but an extra finger just means that my child is awesome! And I hate that this test is so risky but they still do it... But hey, congrats on your baby and his/her awesome gift!

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Brittany F

Мама дочки (2 года)

My cousin was born with an extra pinky on each hand and she turned out perfectly fine lol they just removed them after she was born

itslinny

Linny

@shay2beautiful, oooh okay

shay2beautiful

Shalyn Carden

@itslindsss, they stick a long needle into your stomach and draw amniotic fluid and test it to see all the abnormalities the baby may have.

itslinny

Linny

What would the test even do?

del_1548166534_sarahbethk

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I swear they’ll push extra testing on anyone. I don’t get it! It’s not life threatening!

blessed2018w9

blessed2018w9

Amen to that! I was offered that for my daughter this pregnancy to confirm the Down syndrome.. NOPE! I love her regardless no need for testing.. Don't worry about it hun baby will be absolutely perfect your baby is born with a special gift just like my little Journee. God only gives the special ones to special parents

shay2beautiful

Shalyn Carden

@theycallmemommy, I know that’s why I’m glad that she only the specialist and not my actual OB

theycallmemommy

Steph

I am glad you declined the test. Any mother will love their child no matter what. Extra finger etc! That test is so risky and to ask if you wanted it because of an extra finger, it’s ridiculous.

shay2beautiful

Shalyn Carden

@ladyblauvelt.skysmomma, I know that’s why I politely told her no thank you!! I honestly don’t see why she even suggested the test for only an extra finger.

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Allyson Almeda

You can always have the extra finger removed later too.. No reason to shove a giant ass need into your stomach and risk them making a mistake

shay2beautiful

Shalyn Carden

@angelfoodcake, exactly and I would never terminate

angelfoodcake

angelfoodcake

@shay2beautiful Like my dad said long as they got (4) fingers (4) toes we good. Jka we love our babies no matter what. Crazy alot of people are looking for perfection and will terminate after amonio.

shay2beautiful

Shalyn Carden

@kissesz30, same thing I said!! I haven’t heard of no shit like that.

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Monique

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

For an extra finger... no way. I’m surprised they even suggested that!

shay2beautiful

Shalyn Carden

@knockout, Same here!! I’m going to love my child regardless.. I waited so long to have a healthy pregnancy that I’m not doing ANYTHING to risk losing my child!

knockout

Olivia

Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

🙌🏽 PREACH! I always decline that test. Nothing and I mean NOTHING is going to make me love my kids less

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