bittersweet mothers day. my husband is refusing to find work at home and is trying to make me move to Fresno in a tiny…
bittersweet mothers day. my husband is refusing to find work at home and is trying to make me move to Fresno in a tiny one bedroom mobile home in his parents trailer park. he's making me decide today (with no other options of course) it needs renovation and it's in a pretty bad area. it's not nearly big enough for him, me, my step son and my daughter. he doesn't want to do any job besides selling furniture... been crying all day at the thought of this. there's nothing around it to do except hang out with elderly, and I wont have a car. I've lived in a tiny fishing town my whole life, and I'm so scared of moving to this scary area of crackheads, gangbangers, and hookers, that I might just take my daughter and live with my parents. I'm so upset and scared guys.....
Tahtahme·
Мама двоих (младенец)
yeah probably...that will be a tough call on you. you both have to find a way to compromise so you don't feel like your losing
Bonnie·
Мама дочки-младенца
@tahtahme, he got a car sales job here, but he didn't want to do it because he has to wear a tie. there are lots of other sales jobs too, i found tons! he's sold furniture for 12 years here... he wants to move to Fresno and keep selling furniture and live with his parents. he grew up in Fresno, so maybe it's just wanting to be with family? idk
Tahtahme·
Мама двоих (младенец)
he can't sell cars in Fresno?
Bonnie·
Мама дочки-младенца
@tahtahme, the trailer park in Fresno is over almost on the corner of Olive and McKinley if you're familiar with the area? definitely not my first pick for a family.
Bonnie·
Мама дочки-младенца
@arielannette, @ashsloan @jessd1988 @tahtahme Fresno itself isn't that bad, I would've loved a house with a yard, unfortunately I don't get to pick that. his parents have a tiny broke down looking mobile home in the park they manage. I was just posting about how proud I was that he found a car sales job first try, and now he won't even try it. he said he'd rather keep working furniture sales in a different city.
Tahtahme·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Fresno isn't that bad, especially in the day when you would be put walking around. Do you just not want to move?
Ashlynn Sloan·
В ожидании первенца
Maybe moving with your parents temporarily might not be such a bad idea
Ariel·
Мама сына-младенца
You do what you gotta do for you and your kids
jessica·
Мама дочки (2 года)
sorry girl, hopefully he sees things from your side:/ Is he dead set on moving, is that why he doesn't want to find work where you already are?