how do you ladies feel about your men and strip clubs? my fiance will be going to one next month for a bachelor party. &…
how do you ladies feel about your men and strip clubs?
my fiance will be going to one next month for a bachelor party. & I'm just iffy. I don't know how to feel so I need advice to either be okay with it or if I just need to explain to him my feelings.
Morgen Brown·
Мама дочки-младенца
exactly. @theinkedmommy !!!!
Morgen Brown·
Мама дочки-младенца
ugh, I love you @theinkedmommy 😂😂😂😂
yeah, I'm gonna try and get him to understand how I feel... he's the best man, so he's the one planning this, which makes it worse.... :( he can always say no to a strip club but of course no matter how I feel he won't..... @anap1012 @arivera64 @__kayla.marie__
Dj·
Мама дочки-младенца
I Dunno, if he was going out to strip clubs alone yea I'd be upset. But it's a bachelor party. If I were to go to a bachelorette party an a male stripped showed up. My husband wouldn't be upset with me it's kind of the gig when those parties, it happens and your in attendance. At least your aware of it and it's not some secret he's trying to cover up.
Kayla·
Мама сына-младенца
Ask him/tell him you're going to a male strip club & see how he feels about it. If he doesn't like the idea then explain to him that's how you feel.
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No. Respecting your significant other is more important. If his friend is a real friend, he would understand and respect that. I'm sure his friend will have just as much fun without your SO being there. So to me, he is just finding an excuse to go because going to a stripclub on a regular day would be a whole new argument. IDK girl, you guys have some work to do.
Ana Perez·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Hell no that's not right. But fine if he really wants to go let him. Whenever my husband do something I don't want him to do I just wait on karma to get his ass and it always does. Then he comes crying to me and apologizes.
Morgen Brown·
Мама дочки-младенца
he said that either way, its gonna happen because he wants his friend to have a great party... but do you have to risk your relationship for someone else's fun???? @fubbily @anap1012 @arivera64
Chelsea Marie·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (21 нед.)
@countyourblessings05, i would sit him down and tell him those exact words, and if he doesnt respect you and your wishes then i would be upset.
Ana Perez·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Exactly! So how does he feel about it? Does he not care about how you feel or is he willing to stay home? @countyourblessings05
Morgen Brown·
Мама дочки-младенца
@fubbily, @anap1012 thats the side I'm on. I don't feel comfortable, I don't want him there, I don't want him to go period. I made sure he knew that for our wedding, I told my ladies I don't want male strippers because I respect him enough not to have another man all over me.... & I don't want him seeing any other women other than the one he made a baby with and is spending the rest of his life with. I feel disrespected
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Well you have to tell him how you feel. Even if he doesn't agree, he should respect your feelings and not do it. I asked my husband how he would feel if he saw pics in my phone of giant penis that i downloaded off porn sites and he said he wouldn't like it. So i asked him not to do it to me. He would download pix of girls whmith huge boobs while he knows I'm self concious about my barely B cups and it makes me feel like mine arent good enough. kwim? So you need to tell him
danni·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
being single is not the same as being married or having a fiance (which basically same for me). no way would he go or he can just go. you're eyes on me that's it.
Kirsten·
Мама сына (1 год)
I work at one and let me tell you its all just for fun. Like guys, bottles, girls, dollars. A big party. Nothing to crazy.
danni·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
personally no. we r married and he dont belong there but some ladies are ok with it. they feel like he just looking but my opinion he wana look he got a wife. I think it puts men in an awekward situation. idk what to tell u hunny....sorry
Morgen Brown·
Мама дочки-младенца
I just don't want to cause a big scene and tell him he can't go @arivera64
Morgen Brown·
Мама дочки-младенца
thats how I feel! I flipped out when I caught him watching porn. I think its gross... @arivera64
Ana Perez·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I'd be dead before I let my husband go to a strip club. But that's just how our relationship is. He respects me too much to go out and do that. And I know he wouldn't want me to go out to strip club either. I can understand how you feel tho
Chelsea Marie·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (21 нед.)
i would tell him how you feel. i know i dont like the idea of it. and its always good to express how you feel before problems arise later because of it. :)
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I dont like it. Im self concious. IDC. I don't want my husband looking at naked chicks on porn much less in person. Thank goodness my man doesn't go out.