so my babys dad hasnt been here throughout the first half of my pregnancy and now hes asking for demands like for the baby to have his last name and for him to be on the birth certificate. I'm really not sure about it because we always get into it and hes not even in the right place or mind to raise a child. being on the birth certificate will give him as much custody as i will have and i just dont think im ready to give him that much power. plus he doesn't always claim my son who's not even here yet. i need some advice. btw im due in september so i still have a little bit of time