I love my dad. I really do. I've always listened to his advice whole heartedly but if he tells me one more time to let my son cry it out and to stop holding him all the time because all I'm doing is spoiling him I might scream!!! He's only 3 months. I don't want him crying it out yet. I agree with the ferber method (I've seen it work time after time) but it isn't suggested till 4-6 months anyway so leave me alone!