My son loves the bottle more than my breast 😫 he gets so fussy when I give him my breast but has no issue with with bottle. As long as his eating I’m okay with it. I’ve been pumping and I hate pumping!!
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
so my husband wants to feed are baby but the thing is that I will be breastfeeding so idk how it would work. he was thinking that when he wants to feed him he would give him formula but I just want my baby to have breast milk. so then he said why don't you pump your milk out and I'll feed it to him and i thought that would be the best thing but then I'm scared that my baby will get use to the bottle. I need help idk what to do because my husband really wants to feed him :/ and we need to come up with something before are baby is here. can anyone help??
I literally have to only give my dad and his gf enough for 1 bottle when I drop him off there every Tuesday because last week they were about to give him 6oz in an hour like are you crazy they said because he was crying, play with him give him attention and he won't cry pick him up and walk around with him. I told him he gets 3 oz at 7pm they ended up not giving him the 3 oz till 7:30 and we got there at 8:30 to pick him up and was feeding him again I lost my mind it pisses me off bc he has a schedule and they totally didn't listen
Did anyone stop breastfeeding because they felt like it was too much for them? Sometimes I get really frustrated when my son unlatches every two minutes and then starts getting mad because he's not eating. It makes me feel like I'm a bad mom but I just feel like I don't have the patience for it. Thinking maybe I should just pump and give him bottles or just go to formula.
Mookie·
Мама дочки-младенца
My daughter only latches to my left with or without a nipple shield she barely ever latch to my right but I keep trying and I just pump my right during her feedings
Naomi Cordova·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mommybump2016 @sev1226 @mookie1 thank you ladies!! I appreciate all the advice. I have no trouble getting him latched with a nipple shield on my right side but he screams when I try to latch him to my left 😞and I have no idea why. he also doesn't nurse for very long on either side. but I'll keep trying.
Mookie·
Мама дочки-младенца
You can try a nursing shield because it's similar to the bottle nipple. Or just keep trying to get him to latch at each feeding
Kate·
Мама сына-младенца
It's going to be tricky to get him off of bottle because the boob flows so much differently. Latch him as much as possible for as long as possible. Meet with a lactation consultant if you can!
mommybump2016·
It's never too late:)) if your pumping and giving a bottle make sure you pace feed so it's like he's at the breast. Also if your having trouble latching talk to a LC at the hospital or if your on wic they can help or possibly you Doctor. Also there are shields that you can buy ( omg I don't think that's the name my mind just went blank I'm sorry) but you put it over your nipple and it makes it easier for baby and you. Around 3 weeks is a growth spurt so he might want to bf a lot and that is normal! It doesn't mean he's not getting enough milk from you so just hang in there:))